I worked on a golf course as the beer cart girl for three years so I've observed a lot of male behavior. Reasons they flirt: 1. They think they are paying you a compliment.
(They are treating you how they want to be treated by the opposite sex.) 2. It's an ego boost to them if you flirt back. 3.
It's a cool thing for them to do in front of their male friends. 4. They miss the excitement that comes with being single.
5. Some of them act like they are being playful when they are actually feeling you out to see if they can escalate the friendly relationship into a more physical one.
If you've never had the male sex hormone, testosterone, coursing through your body, or if you have never done your research on the sexual nature of the male, then you won't "get it". Men are visual, sexual creatures and they can be a bit overbearing or say inappropriate things because of testosterone. It's not a good excuse, but it's a true one.
Take care.
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