It's natural for us women to want to be in control and feel that our husbands just don't get it! But if we're not careful, we can turn into a barking, nagging machine that will only make our husbands and children more resistant to doing what we want. It's no mystery that marriages where nagging is absent enjoy more love and happiness on all levels.
Swallow your pride. This may take some time. You need to accept that not everything can or has to be done your way on your time-table.
Tell your husband that you want to avoid being a nag. Promise that you will treat him like the capable adult that you fell in love with. (Most husbands become "lazy" because their wife started treating them less like her true love and more like a child) When you notice that something needs to be done, first determine who can/should do it.
If it's really something that you can do, then just do it. Don't complain later. If you've determined that it's your husband's responsibility (or your child's), the next ... more.
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