How do you deal with a boyfriend's ex wife when she is making your life miserable?

Just like when you deal with a school bully, ignoring her, refusing to be baited by her, regardless of intensely difficult that may be, is the best course of action. It is human nature to want to lash out at her for what she may be doing but pretending she does not bother you is more effective. For whatever reason, she still feels the need to make him, therefore you, miserable and anytime you react to her, she feels vindicated.

She will not stop until you do. This approach takes time and a whole lot of patience. If her actions cross the line of legality, keep records, get proof if you can, and approach the authorities.

If she is making your life miserable, she has control over you. The best thing to do to re-gain control over yourself, like Chaotic Chica said, is to ignore her. It is very natural for her to bother you, but the more you act like she is not bothering you, the less she will actually bother you.Be patient and give it time.

Think of what she is doing to make your life miserable and really think of how to re-gain control of those elements of your life. Stay positive! You can make yourself feel better.

Just remember there are always 2 sides to a story. Try to stay out of it as much as possible so that you do not make it worse either way. Unfortunately that is part of having baggage.

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