How do you deal with your lover after you contract an STD from them and later you find out they were lying to you about other things?

%REPLIES% Answer Relationships are built on not only Love, and committment, but are built on "the big one, and this is trust". It is recommended to move on. If this relation ship is what you claim it is from your question, it is time.No one needs that type of grief in their lives.

With out the trust, there is no relationship. Even if you try to work this thing out,it is highly unlikely it will ever be the same. You see you do not trust your partner anymore, and in the back of your mind you never will.

People make choices in their lives and the other person has made theirs. Make your choice by leaving and moving on to a happier place in life. Life is too short.

This is the Ultimate form of Betrayal Answer Unless you are not independent and are hanging around for financial support, Get Educated, and LEAVE! Answer My advice would be to leave and love from a distance because next time it may be HIV and your life is to important to loose to someone who cheats on you take time out from relationships and get your life on track than when you're ready go and find that special someone and wear a condum when that time come.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.