How do you stop yourself from taking revenge on an abuser and everyone else who joined his games of destruction?

Taking revenge will only aggravate your problems and compound them. You are not alone. Get help!

Answer That is a normal reaction in my book to want to get revenge. However, you need to tell yourself that they are not worth it. Things happen for a reason and know that they will get theirs one day but not by you.

That part of your life should be gone and over with so move on to better things. Showing revenge will show them that they won by getting to you. You need to show them that they didn't take over your life and you can move on and be happy.

If you ever see them I would smile because in your heart you know that one day they will get theirs for what they have done. What goes around comes around Answer It is very common to want to seek revenge. But remember you are worth so much more than that.It is not worth the effort or possible legalities of what could happen.

There is a verse in the Bible that say's for what a man reaps so he will sow. When you plant a seed it first sprouts and eventually comes into full bloom/harvest. Some take longer than other, but eventually it happens.

Even wild seeds produce something and no one has tended to them. So, what the abuser sows, so they will reap. Also, we live in a world where gravity is an unseen force, but we know it exists---but cause what goes up, must come down.

Be thankful you are out of the abusive relationship, grow and find people who will cherish the person you are. God Bless Answer I made a mistake--it should say for what a man sows so he will reap.Sorry.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.