How can you make it right with your ex when you insulted him in every possible way and ignored him for almost a year and then realized he didn't do anything wrong but now your pride is in the way?

You can read your ex boyfriends mind and see if he does want you back, just look for these 3 revealing signs. If your ex wanted you back it is not difficult to see because body language is very hard to hide. If you know what to look for, you will see right through his words and into his mind.

So lets get started so you can find out; “Does my ex boyfriend want me back or not.” Does your ex boyfriend tend to over react? If so, he probably still has strong feelings for you.

When someone over emphasizes something, they usually mean the exact opposite of what they are over emphasizing. People think they can hide their true feelings with anger…this is not true. The answer is “yes” he still has strong feelings for you that he is desperately trying to hide.

Here is another revealing sign. Do you find yourself running into your ex boyfriend a lot? Does he always seem to be showing up at the places he knows you hang out at?

Then he pretends not to see you until he catches you looking at him, and then he approaches like you called him over or something. He is following you around and that means he is still very much attached to you. If you keep tripping over your ex boyfriend like he was your shadow, I would say he still has strong feelings for you.

I do, I really do think he wants his ex girlfriend back but he is too stubborn to admit it. Drop you a line to see how you have been? OK, this is another revealing sign that your ex boyfriend wants you back.

Do you know what those little dropped lines really are? They are hooks…each little note is a way to keep you hooked on thinking about him. Oh, how thoughtful that my ex boyfriend worries about me even though we are broken up.

It is not just being thoughtful your ex boy friend is keeping his memory foremost in your mind, so you will not start dating someone else while he is trying to figure out what to do. He does not want you to exchange him for someone else. If you are experiencing these 3 revealing signs (or something close to them) then your ex is still interested, I wanna say it is time to act.

Well, I would say the best way to find that out for sure is to follow a good plan. Go find yourself a good plan and start working on getting back together with your ex boyfriend. You’re wondering; “Does my ex boyfriend want me back?” and you still do not have a plan?

It is hard to get to your destination without a good map. If you have any comments or questions, please write them below in the comment box, and I will answer them ASAP! Does your ex boyfriend want you back?

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Tagged with: my ex boyfriend want me back. 334 Responses to “Does My Ex Boyfriend Want Me Back? I took about a month before I pluck up the courage and called my ex boyfriend for some small talks, like finally!

(although there are 3 instances where i’d dropped him a text msg on issues totally unrelated to the rs, but abt some work related qns). However, everything turned out into a heated argument towards the end of the conversation again! (the fact that we broke up because he felt that I was always arguing with him, putting my points across to him instead of listening and accepting it.

During the conversation, he actually saw me through that I was still not ready to talk as friends, no matter how hard I tried to put up a strong facade, I failed again. So he wants me to take all my time until I feel I am ready to talk as friends again because he will always be ready to talk to me as friends. So at that moment, he felt I had stirred things up all over again.

I had ruined all the chances of winning back his trust, the plan that I had strategically planned for a month. I ended up spoiling everything again. Because we have a few common friends, and one of them is his colleague I introduced into his office, so most of the time, they had small talks about the rs we had previously.

Its impossible to make him feel he may missed my presence when my girl-friend would talk to him or vice versa; things about me in the office or on their journey back home. I had been reading your advices and followed the steps closely but now i’m so hopeless and clueless on what to do again. I don't know what to do to win back his love, I have no idea if he stills want me back or he totally wants it out.

These emotional ups and downs is affecting me quite badly. As much as I want to believe in a leap of faith for the chance to reconcile, at times it seems that I am really at my wits and those hopes and strengths are slowly retreating away in me. Scott, I really need a direction to guide me on what I should do next.

I felt so powerless in everything I did to make it right. I hope you can spare me some time to drop me a reply. Your advice will be sincerely appreciated.

Thank you so much. These emotional ups and downs is affecting me quite badly. As much as I want to believe in a leap of faith for the chance to reconcile, at times it seems that I am really at my wits and those hopes and strengths are slowly retreating away in me.

It sounds like you need to take a break for trying to win him back. I would go back into NC and stay there, don’t do anything until he is open to sitting down and discussing a real relationship with you, not just being friends. Sometimes when you walk away from someone they suddenly want you back, people usually want things they can’t have.

He knows that you’re waiting for him, and that is what is holding him back. Plus, I would really focus on the arguing problem, and a way to end it. Instead of focusing on getting him back so much, start to focus on building a life without him.

I believe that if he truly still loves you when he sees you moving on he will react, when he does use chapter 6 and set up a short meeting to get to know each other again, and then take it from there. Do you have a plan like The Magic of Making Up? If so, use it, if not get one…OK?

My advice, and the information here on my Blog will work hand in hand with The Magic of Making Up. Thanks Scott, it is heart warming to hear from you. I had been trying to get myself distracted, reading up self-help books to improve on myself and taking up yoga classes etc. I know I was not changing for him but the fact that he was the catalyst to make me want to improve and work on building a better person in me.

He is really a nice guy/friend/boyfriend but he is also more of the contented / mediocre sort while I am more of the ambitious sort, always climbing to reach a higher end. Perhaps that is why our characters clashed? And we were always arguing especially on issues about careers (for that one-week-constant-arguments that ended the rs) which are sensitive issues to men and I know I shouldn’t have insisted on it, making him change for what I assumed it was good for him.

I didn’t make an effort to compromise. Because he was always so nice and patient with me, I’d taken him for granted which pushed him even further away. I know I made a terrible mistake, it was my bad and he had reached his ultimatum.

I had known him since 2007 but only as friends/ acquaintance whenever there was a gathering. We’d started dating only just last end year. It was a totally different kind of rs, we slowly take our time to date, he did not want to rush into anything, just purely getting to know me better (it was me that had shown a little impatience).

Well, we got together in a committed rs in Feb but sadly, things got heated up very quickly and within a month, he chose to end it and left just like this. He did mention to my girlfriend (his colleague) that I was not like this when we were seeing each other and perhaps we were really not suitable for each other. Now that I want to repent for my mistakes, he chose to close the door on a chance for us.

So Scott, do you agree that perhaps he was not really interested in me to begin with? Otherwise, how could he end things just so fast within a month? There are rough patches in the rs, but it’s how we handle it and not escape/ use a breakup as a solution to a problem right?

Or was a test between us? I can’t seem to make out a reason behind this whole issue. I just feel there’s more to this rs, it’s so ‘half-way-done’ and definitely we can work something out.

Or is it because some things are just not meant to be and that I had it once but ruined it so now I had to suck it up myself? Certain things are just too late for us to realize and repent? I really don’t know what I should do next, I wanted to move on but I am willing to give it another shot as well.

And if we stick to NC still, I am afraid with the space and distance, he would have come to terms with the demise of the rs and the new path in life during the times he had been detached from me. The ball is in his court, with NC, I don’t know if I should decide to give things up when it had only been a while and there were not many memories from the rs to evoke him to reconsider a chance. Thank you for your time, Scott.

I know it was long entry. Your advices are greatly appreciated. When people first meet it’s usually the physical attraction at work, after that they really get to know each other, and sometimes they are not happy.

But sometimes when thing “heat up” very quickly people start to get scared, and find anyway to get out because they feel things are moving too fast, or they are becoming too attached, and that scares them. What if you dump them? Maybe they should dump you, before they get too attached…understand?

I am only throwing these examples out there so you can understand there are many reasons why people decide to leave. Did you read the section called “Why Lovers Leave“? There are more insights listed there as well.

If you want to work on getting him back, get yourself a book to work with, and use my Blog to form a plan of action. I just wanted to update you that I have not contacted my ex for a month now, and I feel fine. I definitely have more confidence and feel like life can go on without him.

Of course, I will still be happy if he contacts me, but I will just give it another 2 months and see what happens since he said he needed 3 months. Hopefully I will stick to the NC rule. Anyway, thanks for writing these articles because they have been useful and quite motivating!

Hopefully I will stick to the NC rule. You can do it, just think about working with NC 3 months to get your ex back for a lifetime…OK? Anyway, thanks for writing these articles because they have been useful and quite motivating!

You’re welcome…that is what I am going for educate and motivate. To me knowing what to do is only half the battle, staying motivated long enough to use what you have learned to see results, is the other half. I was thinking that the NC rule probably best applies to those who recently broke up with their ex, however does it also work for people who contacted their ex numerous times, even though the ex preferred they did not?

I really wish I stumbled upon your blog last year, but things happen for a reason. Anyway, as I continue the NC rule, I thought that my ex by now is probably wondering what happened to her? By this time, I would have already contacted him, but I didn’t.

So I guess, now I’m on his mind which may lead him to wonder what happened to her and what is she doing? I was thinking that the NC rule probably best applies to those who recently broke up with their ex, however does it also work for people who contacted their ex numerous times, even though the ex preferred they did not? I really wish I stumbled upon your blog last year, but things happen for a reason.

This plan will work for anyone who gets it, follows it, and most importantly believes in it. A big part of anyone’s success getting their ex back is believing that they can. The best plan in the world will not work if you don’t have faith in it, as well as faith in yourself.

This is a plain and simple universal truth. This is why emotional control, or maintaining your emotional well-being is so important while using any plan to win back your ex. Just came accross this site and your story intrigues me..I just wanted to know if the NC rule worked?

…It looks like 3 months had passed..any progress? Keep in touch! I’m confused.

My ex-boyfriend from 2004-2005 contacted me while I was at the dance club. I’m wondering why he finally wants to talk to me. He begged me to give him a ride.

I said no at first, and then I felt sorry for him so I gave him a ride. He offered to take me to IHOP. I was really hungry so I said OK.

Then he starts criticizing me about the relationship. He says I cheated on him, and that’s why we broke up. The reality is he broke things off with me.

I’m very attractive and went out the next week and kissed another guy. He says that’s why he barely talked to me over the years because he was still pissed about it. I just don’t understand him at all.

Why approach your ex from 2005 when it’s 2009. Oh and btw, he was asking me about my relationships and bfs that I’ve had. I didn’t give the details.

I thought everything was ok, and I’d just hang out at his place after he invited me. I don’t think of him sexually anymore. He asked to sleep with me at the apt.

, but I declined. He said it was because I have feelings for him that I declined. I just think he is soooo strange.

I mean if you want to have sex, find someone new and exciting, not an ex. I feel bad for him because all he has is a friends with benefits girl, and no gf. I’m not the friends with benefits girl.

He thinks it is so great that he has that girl. I just find it strange. I wouldn’t brag about something like that.

I feel sad about the situation. I am just wondering why on earth he would talk to me after 4 years. I mean we ran into each other every so often, and chatted slightly, but never like hanging out.

And he really laid the criticism on me when he got the chance. What’s up with this guy? What’s up with this guy?

Becuase he was stressed with assighments and college work. But he said he just wanted a break from everything. Anyway the other day when talking on msn he said he still cares about me alot of that he will always have feelings for me but we CANT get back together, hes confusing me becuase he sometimes rings me asking if im with his mate dan :S he says we shudnt text or call for a bit only e asked me what I was up to a few hrs later.

Im so confused with what this guy wants from me! Ive ignored him for about a day and a bit now and ive had nothing from him.. I kno the only way to win him back is to ignore him but it seems impossible.. does he seem like he wants me back? And is ignorin him gna work?

Istill love him and would do anything to be with him again. I broke up with my ex 5 months ago..through out this period I missed him very much and I still do till today..for the first 2 months of the break up I ignored him totally but deep down I missed him alot. During that period I bumped into him a couple of times but we did not talk to each other we jus texted each other n said “i think I saw u”.

And jus left things as it is. On the 3rd n 4th month I texted him alot n eventually we met each other 5 months after we broke up. He gave the excuse that he wanted to come over to pick up his things.

We texted me a couple of times to say to meet up but I said I was busy. Then one day I texted him n said “pls jus come over n pick up your things. I don't wanna keep it anymore.

He came over looking angry n said “i jus came to pick up my things n im leaving now. ’ then I said “y do you aws do this? U jus run away without saying anything.

Ever since the incident ive been texthing him n calling him but he doesn't answer my calls..but he replies my messages when I text him n ask him how hes doing. Sometimes I text him n say “it has been a while since I last met u? If ure sick hope you feel better soon” n he will say ‘im ok.

The other day I was having drinks with my friend talking abt him n I started crying n telling my friend how much I miss my ex.my friend suggested that I texted him n tell him I wanted a second chance.my ex replied “its not about the chance,im not that good either. Pls don't blame urself” I feel that im crazy. I don't know why I cant forget him n why it hurts to much everytime I think of him..it has been almost 5 1/2 months since we broke up but it still hurts everytime I think of him.

Make sure you read the rules and guidelines before you join, I strictly enforce them. Istill love him and would do anything to be with him again. Make sure you read the rules and guidelines before you join, I strictly enforce them.

Ive already joined! I was married for 7 years, I meet this guy at work and I fall in love for him. And he sayed he was in love fom me as well, I left my husband and he left his wife to start a new life.

But things started to get complicated, because we work at the same company and his ex deceded not let him seem his son, what made him left me after 2 month and go back to her. I was really in love for him and I don't know what to do now, I feel that I have lost the love of my live. When we was together it was perfect and now he is gone.

I am not trying to get him back with him because he is with her. But I want him back, if thats truth what he told me, that he love me. I got lots of question on my head and I have no answers for it.

If he loves me why is he back with her? Its because of his son and his family or because he likes her? Its because of the money?

But I don't have any of the answers and its just making me mad. He don't talk to me now, but sometimes he sees me and his face changes,i can see in his eyes that he feel something for me. Its my imagination?

But why he left me, I am so confused. Please if you can help me it would be great, because I don't know what to think or what to do. If he loves me why is he back with her?

Its because of his son and his family or because he likes her? From what you told me I would assume that he left because he didn’t want to lose the ability to see his son. Why didn’t he go to court to fight for his right to see his son?

His ex wife can’t deny him visitation just because she is mad at him…he has rights as a parent too. Why don’t you find a man that is not married! He probably tells his wife he loves her too!

I am sure they have a much longer past then the two of you. Thank you very much for answer. He cant go to court because he left everything to her, the house that he still paying for it, but who lives there its her, because of his son, and when we was together he was paying the house, and giving some money to her because of the kid.

And he will miss his son like crazy into the court decided, and his parents as well. He was living with his parents, because he had no where to go. But I told him that time would put things right, but he is to impaciente.

She told him as well that was me or his son. I think his parents started to put presure as well, not because they like her but because she stoped then from see they grandson. As you see everything its complicated, he sayed once that we r like romeo and juliet but without the death maybe he was right.

I fell like I am losing the love of my life. And its nothing I can do. He don't like see me because I think he feel bad about it.

The only think I can do its wait and see if he come back, but into that happen I will fell rubbish. Do you think I should let go? Because I do think that sometimes but I am leting the person I most loved go, My problem its that I think with my heard.

Once I asked him why he would go to the court and the answer was, i’m a brock men. Because he left everything for me. He cant go to court because he left everything to her, the house that he still paying for it, but who lives there its her, because of his son, and when we was together he was paying the house, and giving some money to her because of the kid.

And he will miss his son like crazy into the court decided, and his parents as well. Even if he is low on money he can still get visitation rights. He might’ve given child custody to his wife but he still HAS PARENTAL RIGHTS to see his son with an agreed upon visitation schedule set up by the courts or with a mediator.

I fell like I am losing the love of my life. And its nothing I can do. You can do something about it, contact him and ask him about following through with setting up some appointments with an attorney.

You can always help him with the fees if he needs it. He needs to exercise his parental rights, she (his ex wife) has no right to deny him visitation of his son. Plus why does she (his ex wife) want a man who doesn’t love her anyways…this all doesn’t make much sense.

It is a house of cards that will soon crumble. My advice would be to contact him with a plan to fight for visitation rights for him and his parents (after all they have rights too)…maybe his parents can help with the legal fees as well. You see if you all were to unite (you, your ex, and his parents) together you all could fight this woman and get what you all deserve…but you have to fight back, understand?

There is no reason to give up until you have exhausted every possible way to solve this problem first, I do believe you can solve this. LEAVE him alone! Why would you want to reck someone’s family?

Well its truth. But now its a bit to late I think, because he is back home with her. And he say to me that he had to forget me.

I was thinking on first find another job so we don't work at the same company. Put my life back on truck, because I left everything as well once I left home. And then text him and try to convince him in fight for his happiness, if he accept its because he does love me, if he don't then its because was a lie.

What make me sad on think that way but I have to be realistic. I don't know if will work or not, but it will give him time to make sure of what he really wants. And will give me time to organise myself.

Outside and inside. I left everything for him, and I didn't regret, and my ex tried to do the same with me because I have a son as well, but I know how to fight back and get control of my life. He need to do the same for himself, I cant force him to do anything or he can blame me later if she decided to do something.

I will contact him at the end of next month. I will not know what to say, because he don't want to be my friend and I don't know why as well. If he trully loves me he will come back.

Any idea on what to put at the msg when I contact him? Thanks to talk with me. I feel unconfortable in talking with my friends about it because now he is married.

When we finished he say its was over. Now I don't know if he say it because of all the problems or because he didn't love me no more. For me its a bit weird when someone loves you on a week and the next say he dont.

My only hope its he change his mind. And if he do I will do everything as possible to help him. He is a lier and a cheat!

He NEVER loved you! Thanks to talk with me. I feel unconfortable in talking with my friends about it because now he is married.

I was married for 7 years, I meet this guy at work and I fall in love for him. And he sayed he was in love fom me as well, I left my husband and he left his wife to start a new life. I assumed when you said you “left” your spouses that you both divorced them before living together…this changes everything.

Did you both only get separated from your spouses? Are you divorced or separated from your husband? My advice is to leave him alone until he gets divorced, until then you will never know if he was serious or not…right?

I read your story and I can feel for you because I’m in a simuliar situation. I broke up with my ex back in April and I regret it so much. I have loved this man for 25 yrs.

He has alot of issues going on and I got impatient and wanted things now. You see I was extremely close to his family. His dad and I were tight and he loved me alot.

It’s a long story but his dad thought I was talking about him through other people that I work withthese people are friends with his dad's employee they would say things about my ex that supposibly happened and it wasn’t even true. I called and asked his sister and she wanted to know who told me and I told the truth. Well the guy lied and said I said all thius stuff about the family.

The guy has worked for them for about 26 yrs. I have known the family for about 35 yrs and my dad worked for my ex’s dad and I was friends with all of my ex’s sisters. I haven’t tried to make things right with his dad because the woman I work with is best friends with my supervisor and I know my job will be in jeopardy.

My ex knows about what happened and he said that everything will work itself out just trust him and be patient. He had so much going on also. He has Chrone’s Disease and needs more surgury and was put on a new medication and he is impotent because of that.

He’s had a drug problem in the past and has been clean for 3 1/2 yrs. When he texted me and told me that he had a relapse I automatically thought it was the drug relapse. This happened right after I broke up with him.

We have loved each other since we were teenagers and we definitely have that chemistry. He always comes back to me everytime. He told me he needed space and I’ve given it to him and it’s been so hard.

He texted and said that he met someone else and believe me I’m devestated. My friends and family thinks he only said that to hurt me because I hurt him and plus he has a medical condition that is affecting him sexually. You see when he came back to me he said that weve wasted enough time and he should have always been with me and he’s always been in love with me and will be for the rest of his life.

My oldest son would text himhe's not his sonand beg him not to leave. My ex always loved my son just like his own and was always good to him. He asked my son to give him to September when things are better and then he’ll be in touch.

But when he texted me and said he met someone else I got very upset and told him I was severing all ties with him and I never planned on seeing him ever again. I told him that from then on the only thing we shared would be our son,he’s 13. I miss him so much and think of him everyday.

His sister has reached out and asked my oldest son to work for her. I feel this was planned by her and my ex. She has a landscaper and doesn’t need my son.

I begged and pleaded with him right after we broke up and he moved further and fyrther from me. I haven’t texted or called in about 2 months and I know he’s curious. He doesn’t know anything about what I’m doing and I know he’s curious.

I know he has alot on his plate and his biggest concern is medical condition and how it’s affecting him sexually. He had planned on a nice romantic dinner for us in his new apartment. He lived about 45 minutes away and moved up here to be closer to me .

He had made dinner for me and had the works. Later when things started to get intimate things went downhill for him and he was devestated and embarrassed. He said it must be his new medication.

I assured him I was ok with everything but he was worried about making me happy. Not long after I broke up with him not because of thatI've been through his medical problems before just that he is a workaholic and we didn’t spend alot of time together. I ended our relationship by voicemail.

STUPID I know and I regret it believe me but I know he loves me still he knows I do dumb things here and there and I know he’s angry and just lashed out at me to hurt me too. No contact is very difficult believe me I want to call him so much it hurts but I find something else to do,like telling you my story. I know he’ll be back I just have to give him the space he needs to get his life together.

When the connection,love,chemistry,and everything it takes to have a fantastic relationship is there they know. He has known me all his life and he knows I love him unconditionallyhe tells everyone thathe will be back. You just have to keep telling yourself to have zero contact and it will workI am getting a little here and there.

He came by my house the other day and parked behind my truck for a few minutes. Hang in there and intiate no contact. I have a serious problem to discuss.

I was married for 4 years to my husband but we never had any serious love or passion.At that time I met a person from work who was one year younger to me. We were friends initially but then it became a very serious and intimate relationship. I understood what love was really and he loved me truly as well.

But after about 6 months the relationship became an on and off one with him acting loving one moment and hating me the other moment. When I asked him what was happening he finally opened up. He said he could not bear me being with my hubby anymore and that he cannot spend his entire life thinking what Iam doing at night as he loves me more than anything else in his life.

I was completely stormed with emotion. I promised him there would never be any guy in my life again and that I won't touch my husband ever again. I detached myself from my husband and cut off everything.My hubby did not have major issues with it and said if the feelings are not there he was ready for a divorce.

In the meantime my boyfriend again was on the rollercoaster mode loving me one moment and hating me the next. He also used to make me cry all time by cutting my calls and making me feel insecure and by showing his work frustration on me as well. But the times his mood changes and he is sweet self he loved me like he was mad about me.

This was true for both the on and off bed. On bed he was passionate wanting and ripped me apart everytime with his love. We went out on trips on 3 occasions.

During the last trip we were just only having sex and on the last nite I burst out asking him if he really wanted to marry me or was playing around. He got furious and angry. Exactly 2 weeks later he called it quits with me.

I felt hit in my stomach and did the ugly begging,crying,calling,texting thing till I fell down in exhaustion. 2 days post this I returned to office but with a bright face and confident look to get over him. I went to say hi to him and his eyes looked at me with so much pain that my heart melted.

He said he was angry with me for the way I was pressurising him but realised my value only after he lost me. I told him about the divorce and later in the evening he called me to his desk and said “I left you because I wanted you to get back to your normal life. If thats not happening then Iam there for you.”

It was back to love and love again.in the meantime he had told me abt his problem of being unable to see with his left eye. I didn't know it till then and was shocked. I promised him I wud never leave him.

He said he is sensiive and cannot bear it if I leave him. We were happy and he was loving me with all his heart till exactly one month. He took me to a restaurant and I told him abt the painful things of the divorce.

I talked to him saying “I have not get over the breakup wit you. Now its too much to handle”. He said “I never left you.

I will never ever get a girl like you”. He said he loved me more after the breakup thing. The very next day I got a promotion in office and I told him abt it.

He got jacked by his manager for some reasons around the same time. He became changed after that. Stopped talking to me and concentrated fully on his career.

This became too much I started to miss him a lot and one nite when I kept on calling him he said”i hate you you b****. You are spoling my life and I never ever got back with you. We are done”.

The next day I went to him and said sorry. He was angry but still spoke to me,lunched with me.In the meantime I met with an accident and was not goin to work for 3 weeks. He did not call me and did not pick my call for one week.

Then on the 2nd week when he did pick up he was like “I was worried abt you. But at the moment my mind is too fragile and on my work completely”. After I returned back to work I asked him you don't like me shall I leave you and go.

He didn't reply but his face became serious and he was like go if you cant stand me. Then he started to tell me not to lunch with him as he started to lunch with his team and it won't like nice if I join there. Didn't talk to me.

Didn't pick my calls.nothing.at last one day I told him I packed my bags and Iam leaving the city. He said ok ex. My0 the evening I went to him and asked him this”you are busy now and cannot pay attention to me as your career is at stake.

But you have not forgotten me.”he said “yes” and I saw a very lonely and sad look in his eyes. This was ok. He even said we will go on a trip soon.

Then one day in the morning I went to him to say hi. Don't know wat mood he was in. He went outside office called me and blasted me saying”i hate you I don't want you in my life and you r trying to be with me like a leech.

U r spoiling my life and my career.”this time I felt it was for real. He was angry but 2 days later became normal. But told me we will be jus friends and nothing more.

Since then he has not spoken anything much to me. I then told him I have taken up some special prayers which a priest told me for restoring vision in his eye. He seemed thrilled and happy with it.

Then one evening I told him I want to have one last talk with him before I leave the city. He looked at me sheepishly and said iam scared to talk to you. I said if you wat me to leave then talk to me for one last time for which he said pls leave me free for 1 month as I have some office commitments which can cost me my career.

Then I called him 2 days later and said lets talk it out on the phone. He said if you r desparate for a man go with anyone I don't care. But as far as iam concerned everything is over and I have forgotten everything.

Iam now focussing only on my career and I don't want you to kindle my feelings. I asked him you said you r sensitive and cannot be without ex. My1 that a lie.

His voice changed and he said you know me. Iam sensitive thats y cannot handle this relationship as it does not allow me to do anything in my career. Pls leave me.

I cried and cried badly. Then I called him inthe evening and said how much passion did you show while we were on bed how can you dump me like a used tissue. He replied saying stupid girl go and sleep now.

Don't trouble me else I will come and poke your cheeks and kept the phone with a chuckle. Post this I have changed myself and stopped all my begging and become the smiling beautiful girl I was. I accepted the fact that he is over and I thot I must move on as well.

I have been doing this for last one week. He seemed not to care. But last 2 days he is looking extremely angry and troubled.

When he sees me straight to face in office he kept his face in a rigid manner and did not speak or smile. He still uses the coffee cup I gave him. Wears the shirts and watches I gifted him.

When I say hi to him in the morning he says hi and doesn't talk anything same.am spite of all this never at any point in time did he ask me to get back with my husband and be happy. He said I cant handle this now and if I come back to you my career focus will go. He is sincerely working as I can see.

Post the fight with him saying he is over me he happened to see a picture of me with my cousins on my desk and asked me where did you take this one? When did you go? Did you go on a trip or was it nearby.

He seemed curious to know when it was taken. Is he over me as he claims? Is he thinking he can come back to me anytime if he does wat he wants in his career.

Fyi he is a very emotional and sensitive aquarian. He seems detached completely and is very arrogant when his mind is busy with something but the moment he looks at me he used to fall flat. He has told me always that he won't get a beautiful,graceful,sensitive,loving woman like me ever who can understand him and be patient with him.

Even in office ppl say he is very difficult to handle. Shd I move on or wait for the love of my life by being patient. If I wait will he come back or will it hurt me more later when I know he has truly moved on.

He doesn't talk to me or look in my direction. In fact he tries his best to avoid looking at me and turns away if he has to pass by my else.be he so angry with me for hurting him. I don't know.

I admit I have hurt him by shouting and fighting many times. Need your help to understand his behaviour. Sorry for the long comment but this is my last chance at my life.

I can not predict what his behavior means, but I can tell you the best way to find out if he still has feelings for you, is to use the step by step plan we follow in our free forum. Make sure you read the rules and guidelines before you join, I strictly enforce them. Don’t forget to sign up for my free News Letter for free videos, tips and advice on How to Get Your Ex Back.

Just click on the link under the little red heart in the upper right hand corner of my Blog. I dated this guy zack for about 11 and a half months, well we broke up, and yeah I cried and cried and begged him. And all he did was tell me to leave him alone and that he was never getting back with me, he hurt me really bad.

Today I was with my guy friend gary, which I dated a while back before I met zack, when I was wish gary, my ex zack started getting kinda friendly with me and then after that he left, well his friends told me he was very mad about me hanging out with my buddy gary/ ex bf. Why does he care if I hung out with another guy for? Me and him aint dating now, we haven’t been dating for almost 5 months now, yeah I still do love my ex bf zack, but I know that begging and pleading him to come back to me won’t work, so iv’e lost complete touch with him, I havent tried to contact or go and see him in quite awhile.

Why is he jealous of gary for? I know that begging and pleading him to come back to me won’t work, so iv’e lost complete touch with him, I havent tried to contact or go and see him in quite awhile. Why is he jealous of gary for?

He still has feelings for you, that’s why. If you want to get him back you will need to follow the plan we use in our forum. Make sure you read the rules and guidelines before you join, I strictly enforce them.

Don’t forget to sign up for my free News Letter for free videos, tips and advice on How to Get Your Ex Back. Just click on the link under the little red heart in the upper right hand corner of my Blog. Sorry for troubling you again.

Sorry for troubling you again. That’s really up to you…if you feel you should move on then do just that, but if you want him back follow my previous advice. I run into my ex often, but we live in the same town, so…..? When I run into him, he doesn’t come over to me or talk to me.

Do you think he wants me back? I run into my ex often, but we live in the same town, so…..? When I run into him, he doesn’t come over to me or talk to me. Do you think he wants me back?

Even though you live in the same town isn’t funny that he runs into you that much? He may thinking about approaching you but is afraid of rejection. Did he break up or did you?

Either way if you want explore this further you can join the forum and follow our step by step plan. Make sure you read the rules and guidelines before you join, I strictly enforce them. Don’t forget to sign up for my free News Letter for free videos, tips and advice on How to Get Your Ex Back.

Just click on the link under the little red heart in the upper right hand corner of my Blog. He broke up with me. It is kinda weird though that I keep running into him.

But he never talks so I don’t know if I should talk to him? I will check out the link you gave me in the email. He broke up with me.

It is kinda weird though that I keep running into him. But he never talks so I don’t know if I should talk to him? I will check out the link you gave me in the email.

I look forward to watching your progress in our forum. My boyfriend and I broke up last saturday. For the last four since then I have been applying the no contact rule.

But today I thought I could fix it by talking to him. We talked in my car and I started asking him why we couldnt get back together, and he just keep saying cause he didn't want to be in a relationship anymore. And said that we could be friends.

I txted him to tell him something and then we stopped txting me and he txted me again and said if I was ok. I just said I respected his decision and he said we could still be friends. I then txted him back saying ok.

I mean for the last four days I hadnt talked to him. S we had been together for a little over a year. You need to get to our forum ASAP and get started on our step by step plan…OK?

Very important not to waste any more time and initiate no contact while it has only been 4 days. Make sure you read the rules and guidelines before you join, I strictly enforce them. Don’t forget to sign up for my free News Letter for free videos, tips and advice on How to Get Your Ex Back.

Just click on the link under the little red heart in the upper right hand corner of my Blog. I’m having a bad time again. I’ve been thinking of contacting my ex and I’m trying not to think that way.

My mind has been playing ping pong about whether I should or not . This is much harder than I anticipated and it’s getting harder each day. I’ve been keeping busy but he is constantly on my mind and I’m really needingsome answers from him.

I want to talk to him so much to get this guilt off my chest. I broke up with him back in April is it too soon to contact him? I don’t want to make a mistake but I feel horrible.

I have been reading The Magic of Making Up whenever I can,I’ve read it a couple of times, but I need your imput on this. Is it too soon to contact him and will it be a mistake? Thank you so much for being there Scott!

This is the 6th week now we have been split and in this time ive had the odd text message asking if im ok? And then when he learnt id been out on a date I had 5 missed calls on phone and a text asking who is this guy? Where does he live?

And if im seeing him again? Since then I havent heard anything other than late one night he text and said he wishes me luck if im with someone x. Since then I have started NC and am following your advice on the forum.

So far I havent heard from him but do you actually think I still stand a chance after 6 weeks? Is he still bothered about me? Should I just give up?.

I’ve been keeping busy but he is constantly on my mind and I’m really needingsome answers from him. I want to talk to him so much to get this guilt off my chest. I broke up with him back in April is it too soon to contact him?

I don’t want to make a mistake but I feel horrible. I have been reading The Magic of Making Up whenever I can,I’ve read it a couple of times, but I need your imput on this. If you read chapter 6 of MOMU you will see that the reconnection is a slow process, and you can not just start apologizing or pumping your ex for answers…this will blow up in your face and drive your ex away again.

You DO NOT sound like your emotionally read to reconnect with your ex, keep working with the exercises in chapters 1-5 in MOMU. Your BEST chances would be to follow the plan in our forum, I don’t know if you properly initiated NC or not but you need to follow our plan, it really works…. Go read our forum.

Since then I have started NC and am following your advice on the forum. Did you use the recommended NC message word for word? So far I havent heard from him but do you actually think I still stand a chance after 6 weeks?

If he hasn’t contacted you after you initiated NC he is following your request. Yes, if he was so interested in what you were doing before you initiated NC he is even more now, but he is probably mad because you took control of your situation with NC. Just keep following the plan and doing ALL the exercises in chapters 1-5 in MOMU…OK?

I sent my ex an apology letter using TW’s Clean Slate Method apologizing for stuff from the relationship and told him I still agree with the breakup but I had to give him back his jacket and didn’t want to just leave it there and since he didn’t return my call. Anyways, I just left it on his doorstep with the jacket in a bag. Do you think I messed up?

How can I fix it if I did? Do you think I messed up? No, you gave back what belonged to him…how can that be wrong?

You’re best bet would be to follow the free plan on my Blog. But what about the apology letter? Do you think that’s okay?

I started NC about 1 1/2 months ago and tried to call him but he wouldn’t take my call so I thought if I apologize for what went wrong using that Clean Slate Method, it would help. But what about the apology letter? I told you what to do…follow the free plan, OK?

My ex left after a 10 year relationship. Things had gone downhill, but I wanted to repair it. I still love him.

It’s been almost a year since he left, and he quickly started up with someone else. I am still grieving. He tries to keep in contact.

To talk about his feelings one minute, for a friendly chat the next, all by email. Why is he still doing this? I am in agony.

I have not seen him since he said he was with someone else except at something we both had to be at. It is so hard to look at him now. If he is with someone else, why is he still keeping in contact?

If he is with someone else, why is he still keeping in contact? Good question, want to find out the answer? If so, then start following the free plan on my Blog…the link is at the top.

This will help you to move on from the old relationship, and it will make him think about what he really wants. 10 years doesn’t just disappear…does it? Are you ready to evolve?

I broke up with my boyfriend almost 3 years ago. We were together for four years as boyfriends. However, for one year, we kept on seeing each other having intimate moments, ‘no strings attached’.

I really felt guilty about it, but he just wanted us to be ‘friends’. It disappointed me that much. After two years, I pretended to be ‘preggy’ and I informed his ‘new girlfriend’ about it.

He was extremely angry to me, and he did not contact for quite a long time. I said ‘sorry’… and I thought, maybe we weren’t meant for each other really. I already accepted the truth that he is not the man for me, so I decided to have a relationship with another man.

He was too jealous, and angry, as what my friends were reporting me. But why did he refuse to approach me? Now, we have communications, through sending text messages, and I had a joke that I am already 4-month pregnant with my good-looking boyfriend.

I didn’t know his reaction. But it was only a ‘joke’, because I am afraid to be rejected again. Then, he told me that he is already married, and he would have a baby soon.

I don’t understand! He wanted to see me, but I don’t know what his intention is. I am really confused.

Please help me. The truth is, I still love him, and I wanna marry him, but I don’t wanna be dumped again. I understand he is too young to be serious, but my feelings keep on bouncing back.

I can’t explain it anymore. I’ve already moved on… Thanks guys! I am happy now… Very happy!

I don't mean to be rude but thats a bit sick pretending to be pregnant, you should never joke about things like that. Im not surprised he was angry with you if you told his girlfriend you was pregnant, if you think that wud impress him or miss you think again. I think you sud forget him and not listen to friends as you don't no if they are being completly honest, you say hes to young to be serious, I think you r to young and immature for marriage or any form of serious relationship if you think pretending to be pregnant is funny.

If that is the case…you must move on because this is only a great waste of time for the both of you. I can’t explain it anymore. I would highly advise moving on from this situation.

It seems that you and him are both involved with other people, and just like to trade lies. That does not make for a very healthy relationship…does it? You both have some “growing up” to do.

I am already trying to move on. Thank you, Scott! You’re simply the best!

Thank you, Scott! You’re simply the best! You’re welcome GLY!

If you need help moving past this situation feel free to start following the free plan. It has helped a lot of people personally evolve, and move on with their lives. I broke up with my boyfriend because I could sense that HE was going to break up with me so I wanted to dump him first.

How do I get him back in this case? I spoke to him once & he said he wanted to move on. I broke up with my boyfriend because I could sense that HE was going to break up with me so I wanted to dump him first.

How do I get him back in this case? I spoke to him once & he said he wanted to move on. The free plan on my Blog works for this situation too.

Just follow all the steps, and when you get to the part about sending the no contact message use the one for people who dumped their ex, and want them back. Does he want me back when he calls just to check on me? Brags about his new girl for a couple of days and then he doesn't mention her at all,then keeps asking me who I am sleeping with or dating?

Asks me to come over to his place? I’ve seen him a couple of times after the break up,and every time he sees me he tries to kiss me,or tries to get in my pants,several times when he has called me he talks a lot about us,he brings up things from the past and keeps remeniscing on old memories. Last time he saw me he pulled in the guilt card SAYING THAT HE TRULY LOVES HIS NEW GIRLFRIEND AND THAT HE HAD JUST CHEATED ON HER WITH ME blah blah my question is why didn't he say that the previous 10 times that he did the same thing?

Why didn't he feel guilty when he kept trying to sleep with me? And then why does he compare me to her so much? My question is why didn't he say that the previous 10 times that he did the same thing?

My question is…would it have mattered if he did? This guy is an untrustworthy idiot. Why didn't he feel guilty when he kept trying to sleep with me?

You have to have a conscience to feel guilt. He obviously doesn’t have one of those to worry about. Why does he compare me to her so much?

I am guessing to make you mad and make you try to prove to him that you have a better body by giving up the goodies. He’s a real genius this guy. He wants to have his cake and eat it too.

Follow the free plan on my Blog (link is at the top of my Blog), and make him choke on his cake. Thank I was thinking of doing that,the thing is why does he want to know what I am doing all the time,and if I am involved with anyone? For some reason I have a feeling that she doesn't exist or if she does she is not what he says she is.

Maybe you and I werent truly meant to be like I once thought,Maybe giving myself to you wasnt such a good idea but at least you experienced a woman that knows how to devote and dedicate herself to please her man not only catering to him sexually but mentally as well. A woman that had no fear of showing how much she can love and treat her man like he was the only one for her,like he was madejust for her. He hasnt answer and he hasnt call me,but I realized that he hasnt changed,he cheated on me I got him back I think maybe the reason why he was so hung on me is the fact that he cant control me,plus I catered to him mentally as well as sexually,so I know very well that I am one of those rare kinds of women that every guy dreams of,not to sound cocky but who cooks,cleans,saws,is a romantic hopeless,writes poetry,is always willing to do whatever it takes to make that person happy,ex.

My8 I don't feel too bad,all I know is that he will realize this someday and im going to be gone ,well I am already gone,but he thinks he has me. Why does he want to know what I am doing all the time,and if I am involved with anyone? He wants know if you’re still waiting for him.

She was dead right about that. Either he is really pissed off about the break up or he is just plain stupid,i don't get it he was the one that dumped me. I don't know why but I have a feeling that he is the one dying inside lol hopefully :p plus honestly nobody can forget a woman that is not only loving but also very sensous am I right?

Or would you forget a woman that cooks for you in a g string and high heels or a woman that makes a trail of roses from the door to the bed while waiting on you with a tiny french maid outfit? And that gives you anything and everything you want? That treats you like you are the only man for her?

Okay so I brokeup with my boyfriend about 4 months ago. I only brokeup with him because my parents hated him with a passion, and because the spark we had started to fade. About 3 days after we brokeup he got a girlfriend that looked identical to me!

And they’re still going out. But anyways, everytime I see him in the hallway and he sees me, he immediatly looks away and acts as if I’m invisible! But if I turn around, he sometimes just stares right at me.

Like he only looks at me when he least expects me catching him. So I was just wondering, what does this mean? I would really appreciate it if you wrote back and gave me advice.

Everytime I see him in the hallway and he sees me, he immediatly looks away and acts as if I’m invisible! But if I turn around, he sometimes just stares right at me. Like he only looks at me when he least expects me catching him.

So I was just wondering, what does this mean? It sounds to me like he stills has feelings for you. I desperately need advice.

My ex whom I was with for 3 yrs just dump me because he is relocating to another country for work and not ready for commitment. I agreed to the break up. HE said he won’t date any girls except random sex for the next 2 yrs and he still loves me.

We are going to remain as friend and see each other from time to time when he is back home visiting his parents. We both use skype. And I can’t disppear on skype as sugguested for the no contact rule, so what should I do?

Plus if he asks me out I can’t just not go as we are friends. So he can see me online everyday now so it is against the no contact rule right? And I can’t disppear on skype as sugguested for the no contact rule, so what should I do?

Plus if he asks me out I can’t just not go as we are friends. So he can see me online everyday now so it is against the no contact rule right? Why can’t you?

Don’t you have a say over what you do in your own life? Here’s the bottom line, if you want him back as more than a friend, you have to use no contact correctly as outlined in the free plan. Your story doesn’t make any sense…he dumped you, yet he said he will remain some what faithful except for some random sex…what a guy!

BTW – having random sex is not being faithful. If that’s your idea of true love I feel sorry for you. The no contact strategy is simple, but you have to follow it, if you can’t or won’t follow it…I can’t help you.

I just don’t want to appear odd for doing this when I agreed to this. It is no guarantee we get back together but that at least knowing he didn’t break up with me for another girl and he won’t be commit to another girl. So it is not me.

Since we broke up , it is ok that he has random sex or date whoever. But at least knowing he dump me not because he doesn’t love me anymore? Does this make sense to you?

I am really confuse…He is super rational type of guy and he just said he is not ready for any serious relationship at the moment. Please help me scott. You came to my Blog for advice, but you don’t want to use it…so how am I supposed to help you?

Like I said, use the free plan, if he really “loves you” like he says he does, then he will take action. If he doesn’t take any action he is full of shit…simple enough, right? Hopefully while he is out having random sex he doesn’t fall in love, or catch a STD.

But don’t worry about that, worry about using a proven plan, because you might look foolish. That is real fucking smart. Your ex obviously has you wrapped around his finger…enjoy the view while he has random sex.

I want to try the nc rule if there is a chance that I can get my ex back. The last emails I recieved from him he said that he does not understand where I am coming from. He does count me as a friend but that is all.

I don't think it would ever amount to anything more than that. I don't know what I have said that would give you any other impression. Then he says that beleive it or not iam a really nice guy and I would help with anything I could.

So why when I was seeing this guy did he want to take me away on holiday and take me out for meals and make up any excuse to come see me. He confuses the hell out of me. He confuses the hell out of me.

I told you what you need to do…just do it. My bf he leave me before 1 month. But befor ended our relation we are spendinding very lovly time he bring me very expensive gift and he told me always remember when I kisse you if feel its 1st time I kisse women I have big feeling to you we making love we laught when I will come back home he told me im very confuse I don't know what I want you give me permission to live my life and he told I don't love you and im not attracted to you then I say im not your wife do what you want I thing you do everithing but you keep on me he say ok I want ended our relation cz I don't want hurt u.

But didn't believe him I say he have someone else new relarion. SIR: is tru what I feel? Im try to know why he say I love and then no have feeling then no why he he leave me?

Im try to know why he say I love and then no have feeling then no why he he leave me? He probably didn’t mean it when he said “I love you”. If you want to find out his true feelings use the free plan (link at the top of my Blog) to find out if he was lying when he said he loved you.

My ex boyfriend has been telling my few friends that he used to go out with me. Does that means he stilled have feelings for me? My ex boyfriend has been telling my few friends that he used to go out with me.

Does that means he stilled have feelings for me? It sure seems like it to me. My other question that my ex boyfriend been staring at me since about… 2 weeks and even though we are on spring break?

I want to know why he has been staring at me including following me whenever I sit at? What kind of revealing sign that is? I want to know why he has been staring at me including following me whenever I sit at?

What kind of revealing sign that is? Either you put a spell on him like that chick did in the witch movie “The Craft“, or he thinks your hot. Does that answer your question?

Not really I don't believe in witch craft. I am just saying that he stares at me but 2 weeks. I just want 2 know why he is staring at me?

Not really I don't believe in witch craft. It was a joke! I just want 2 know why he is staring at me?

Why don’t you go ask him, how would I know? I took a couple guesses…I am not a mind reader. You don’t have to be Dr. Phil to figure out that guys usually stare at women they are interested in.

Either that, or he is trying to drive you crazy…if so, it seems to be working…ignore him. I’ve been reading a lot of questions here and if the guy who broke up with you didn’t make any move after he received the NC letter he is either out of sign out of mind or absence makes hear grow fonder, let’s day 3 or 4 weeks, it means he is not interested in getting back together? If I hurt his pride, would he willing to give us another chance?

I read some of your articles, it said if a man still wants to be friends, it could be a sign he still has feelings for you cuz why would he wants to be friends if the relationship broken, right? , but some time I know men or women just saying that either to get out without drama, being coward or let the other person down easy. I’m trying to get some money to buy the MOMU from you Scott.

To keep you from moving on, so (if) when he decides he might want you back, you”ll be waiting. Great for him, bad for you. You need to follow the free plan, and take back control of your life.

As long as you are desperate to get him back, you won’t. Let’s day 3 or 4 weeks, it means he is not interested in getting back together? Not at all, and if you read the free plan, you will see that the reconnection is up to you, when you are “truly” ready, you make the move to reconnect…not your ex.

Read the free plan, and our forum, and your questions will be answered…OK? I know you were joking… Yeah that can be true. But what should I say to him?

Also i’ve been dreaming about him. Because it was at prom. And we never had our first kiss at all.

OKAY SO ME AND MY EX BOYFRIEND HAVE BEEN OFF AND ON ON HOOKING UP STILL AND WE DONT REALLY END UP GOING BACK OUT WHICH I WANT TO BUT I DONT KNOW I NEED SERIOUSLY HELP HE STILL TRIPS IF I GET WITH A GUY HE ALWAYS ASKS ME QUESTION AND SOMETIMES LAUGHS AND SAYS HE DOESNT CARE BUT YET HE STILL ASKS ME QUESTIONS? I can help you help yourself. You need a great plan that will help you get your (single) life back, and once that happens, your ex will follow.

Find the link to the free plan (right-hand side of my Blog), and read it. Then start from the top and follow all the steps. But what should I say to him?

Ask him why he keeps staring at you, do you have a booger in your nose? Just break the ice…make a joke, be yourself. Okay… Should I also asked him about my dream about him?

And take it from there? Okay… Should I also asked him about my dream about him? And take it from there?

Telling him you dream about him, kind of puts you at a disadvantage…don’t you think? Maybe something a little more subtle? What you mean by subtle?

And I try talk to him today? And I get butterfly because we havent talk until from last year. And I do wanna talk to him again.

What you mean by subtle? What you mean by subtle? Something that doesn’t make it look so obvious that you really like him, you might scare him off that way, start slowly.

Ok… will be hard if I tal