How to get my wife sexually active again?

There are so many variables with this that it would make your head spin. For women sex is 90% mental 10% physical. For men it's 90% physical 10% mental.

Once you come up with that answer, you then ask her the same question. You will find obvious differences.

It could be something simple or something more in depth. Most likely if you have gone 6 weeks, it is in depth. Something that she cannot easily get over.

Have you cheated on her? If you have and it is kept secret, are you sure it is still a secret?

And the list goes on.... I would suggest starting at the #1 thing I listed and go from there.

The nasty thing to say would be that she is still sexually active... just not with you. You never know, it does happen. Might be something to consider as well.

Although it is accepted that in marriage, after several months or years the amount of sexual activity does wane.

I think you should continue with the back rubs, that's always a plus, however I recommend buying her sexy lingerie to make her feel good. I also suggest calling her from time to time at work or while she is with friends, expressing how sexy she looks and how she makes you feel. Ask her out on a date, take her to the movies, have her watch adult movies with you..."this will give her heart an extra thump"!

But, if you wanna make it last forever, you want to express your concern about your sex life with her and pick up the pieces from there.

Maybe you should sit down and talk to her openly. It must have reason behind this? Have you try to dig further why yr wife is acting like that?

I was about to laugh, at this question, then as I continued to read more of it, It became a serious issue,from a woman point of view.

2. When you first met her was she shy about having sex?

3. Have she gained a lot of weigh over the years.

4. Have you gain weigh over the years and probably.

5. Have your technique change over the years>(like how you approach her when it comes to sex.

6. Having sex in the same room, same position etc.

9. Some women like to be romance, to get her in the mood.

Her reasons for not wanting to have a sexual moment with you.

Might not be none of those reasons I meantion, it might be "she just not into you, you are like her brother, taking you for granted.

Ways of making her look at you again in sexual way.

It might depends on a lot, of things however, just asked.

Her if she still love you......and look watch her body language as she answer you..., and also look into her eyes for the truth........

One more thing, strip down in front of her watch her reaction.

If she said, laugh or said, "you need to put your clothes back on.

Then .... she really not into you. Simple as that...

Let her watch some really good movie about romance. Or if she likes to read about romance story, get her some romance novel. That'll fulfil her 90% mental needs to do it ....

I just wrote an article about that at the HappyHer. Com blog. Go to the site and scroll to the bottom and you'll find a link to the blog.

Happy Reading!

I wish I could answer this, unfortunately I am in the same position.

Let her think you are starting to think the idea of having an affair to be kind of cool and I am talking about the type of affair that include sex only and nothing else.

This outa make her want to have sex with you again, because she is worry if she don't. You might actually start doing it with other girls, Bill Clinton style.

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