You can't.....it isn't normal neither does it make any sense. I was taught that growing up and best believe the people who were teaching it wasn't living it. There are always exceptions to the rule and if this is a special situation you won't have to "wait".
Sex won't be the main focus of this relationship because you will be engulfed in so many other aspects of the persons essence. Then your sacrifices ie: patience and trust won't even be sacrifices. Other than that it's a waste of time and you waited decades for what?
Vonda G.Nelson.
It's not possible or even advisable to think that you can prevent premarital sex. The only thing you can and should do is educate your children about safer sex.
If so, "just say no". If you are trying to prevent someone else, rotsa ruck with that.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.