Husband had affair with married women (before we met!) now she won't leave him alone...?

Your affair is one part of your worry but the fact is that you lied to him. Not even communication or begging for forgiveness will help. You need professional help or counseling.

I personally wouldn't recommend your husband to stay married with you. He should leave and he deserves better!

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.