I am a 24-year old male virgin. What should I tell me friends and future girlfriends?

1. Why was your ideal girlfriend a virgin, just so you could hang it on your wall as a plaque? (metaphorically of course) 2.

You're 18! In an ideal world many people would still be virgins at that age, but the truth is that a *lot* of people lose it as soon as possible, 16. She didn't give it away that easily.

3. You're right, you have absolutely no right to be angry. She was possibly pressured into it, or feels bad about it already, you're just making her feel worse, I'm surprised she isn't angry at you for being so shallow.

If you're 'so devoted to her' you wouldn't hurt her like this.

The answers are all in front of you. Stop thinking about the guy she lost her virginity too. She even said she was disappointed in herself for letting it happen.

Maybe she loved the guy maybe she didn't, maybe he pressured her into it. You don't know so stop jumping to conclusions about it. You also said that her losing her viriginity is in the past.

Let it stay in the past. You can't change it so get over it. Who she was then isn't who she is now.

You can't blame her for anything that she did before you two were together. Just because she lost her viriginity doesn't mean she will jump into bed with you. Maybe she wants to wait to be in love again before she has sex who knows.

But it is apparent that she regrets her decision and wish she should have waited. When you guys have sex-if you do does that mean it won't be special for the two of you? No.

It will be better because it will be with you. But don't start comparing yourself to the guy she lost it to. Let it go or it will eat you up inside.

I wasn't a virgin when I met my now husband. But I regretted losing it and he respected me enough to wait. He didn't ask questions he didn't push.

Was he a virgin? No and sometimes it would bother me that he was more experience but you need to look at your girlfriend for who she is not that she's no longer a virgin. Look at her as a whole.

And stop focusing on a minor detail.

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