I am seeing a mates sister, and she like me more than I like her. How do I break up with her and keep my friendship with my mate?

You do so with the utmost respect and honesty to your girlfriend. Tell her honestly and gently that you don't see the relationship going anywhere, and that you just want her to be happy. Let her know that you aren't the right guy to give her the happiness she deserves.To quote a classic song, break it to her gently.

It should be a low-key break-up that doesn't require commentary, jokes, or stories from your other friends. She will be hurt, maybe even crushed. And so there will be at least some awkwardness, if not anger between you and your mate.

Sorry to say, but that goes with the territory of dating a friend's sister. The good news is that time is on your side. If this friend is a good friend, then it will only be a matter of time before he adjusts to what happened.

Your girlfriend will hopefully move on quickly and he will see that you weren't the ruination of her. Everything will be okay. Some tips on what NOT to do as part of the break up: * Start yelling and insulting her * Discuss in-depth with her brother all of her faults * Go around spreading stories (true or false) about the girl * Treat her with anything but pure dignity and respect.

Here's how I'd do it: 1) Talk to your mate. Tell him that you're going to break up with his sister right after you're done talking with him. Tell him exactly why you're breaking up with her.

Tell him that you're talking to him first because you still want to be friends with him. 2) Talk to your girlfriend. Tell her clearly why.

Tell her that even though things didn't work out that you still think she's a great person and while it might be tough now, that you hope you can be friends later on. Tell her that you're still going to hang out with her brother. 3) Stay away from her AND her brother for a week (or so).

Let things cool down. Then (depending on how old you are) take your mate out for a beer or a movie. Pay for the movie / beer and tell him it's because you know the breakup sort of sucked.4) Say hi to his sister, be friendly, but try very hard not to engage her in a conversation for a while.

If she asks why you're being "cold" tell her that you're having a tough time over the breakup (even if you're not). Tell her that you want to be friends, but since you're having a tough time that you think it would be better just to wait. Make it about you, not her.5) If possible, find your ex a new boyfriend.

Even if they don't hook up right away, if an old girlfriend feels like she "has options", this goes waaaaaaay easier. Best of luck.

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