I am spraying painting baskets for things in my wedding. Would it be safe to put the silverware for the dinner in one of these baskets?

Me personally ... if my hypothetical wife had died I wouldn't remarry or even have sex again for that matter. For religious people they believe there is a life after, as I do, so there's no way I'd jump into the arms of another woman when I believe my wife is in heaven watching me do it ... that'd be pretty pathetic on my part. I can't even imagine if I died, my wife remarried and he died, she remarried again and that guy died to, and by the time she died and made it to heaven she had like ten husbands waiting for her.

Strange I think.

Bonn has it right. The wedding vows are just that: vows, not blessings or wishes. You're promising to do specific thing: remain faithful as long as you are alive.

Your suggested alternative obscures that point. This is also an example of how death has replaced sex as the subject that people are afraid to talk about. I don't think such fear should be encouraged.

Especially in a Christian context. Finally, it's worth noting that the idea that the married relationship extends beyond death is expressly contradicted in Christian scripture. (See Matt.

22:30 or Mark 12:25).

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