You don't have "no rights." The problem is that yo were too busy sticking in into her to care about what happened next. You did not go to court and get joint custody, LEGALLY, when the child was born.
You just wanted free sex and maid service and hookers are too expensive. Now you pay the price. If you had gone to court in the first place you would have custody now.
Sorry, but you play fast and loose and this is what happens. Just like everyone told you. Hire a family law attorney and fight for you rights.
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