I don't want to fall out of love with my boyfriend. I'm really confused right now, please help me sort out my thoughts?

A few points (not judgmental, just statements/opinions): 1. Five months is not a long time. Your relationship has not matured.It sounds like you are leaving the "honeymoon" stage, and transitioning into the long-haul stage.

It's normal to stop seeing your partner as perfect. It's a sign your relationship is maturing and becoming more real.2. You did move quickly.

You bonded very quickly as well, which is great, but that also means that leaving the honeymoon stage feels worse, because you felt so sure so quickly.3. You spend way too much time together, in my opinion. You need separate lives in order to be deserving of each other.

Who wants to be with someone whose entire life is their partner? Have a couple of nights each week where you each hang out with your own friends, enjoy your hobbies, or just spend some time alone.4.It's normal to wonder "what if" about other people, feel attracted to other people, and/or wish your spouse was a little bit different. Being in a relationship just means letting those thoughts go eventually and making the decision that your partner is who you want.

I would recommend that you stop analyzing so rigidly, and just relax. Your relationship is transitioning, and that's fine. You don't need to make long-term plans or decisions.

Take it a day at a time, and let yourself feel how you feel. You're not trapped with your first love. There is no law that says you have to stay together.

There is, however, a very, very strong emotional attachment to your first, which can sometimes cause you, I think, to stay with them even if they aren't right for you. Bottom line though, you don't need to decide anything now. Communicate open and honestly with your partner, and don't force yourself--or him--into anything.

You don't need to tell him stuff like "I met a guy who is way better looking than you, and I thought about cheating," but you could tell him things like "I'm trying to sort out where this is going, and I'm feeling a little confused." He may be feeling the same way.

When two people are married, they both have the responsibility to try to keep the relationship together. Crushes happen to not married women as well as unmarried women: especially to the one's who have husbands or boyfriends who are contributing to a non harmonious relationship. There is an underlying reason why you have the crush, and God does know the answer.

You just might be in Love with the new guy! It is a good thing to follow your heart when it comes to Love. Don't act as if you are married to any boyfriend, when you are not.

Try not to get intimate with a boy friend until you marry him. It's allright to be friends with him and get to know him. He may or may not be the one for you.

Pray about it and ask God to reveal to you which one of them is your husband, and don't settle for anything less. (It may or may not be the case that your future husband is the one in which you were intimately involved with. But, do not let guilt blind your decision).

Think about the good qualities which you would like to see in your future spouse and reward the man in which you are in a relationship when he reveals those qualities. Like this: "Thank you for turning off the ringer on your phone on Saturday and spending the day with me without any distractions. It means a lot to me.

I enjoy spending time with you. " That's one example. Or, you could thank him for taking out the trash or helping you study for an exam, or for remembering that you like creme in your coffee.

Those are all nice thing for a guy to do. On the same page, do not reward bad behavior. If he is checking out another woman in a lustful way: tell him blatantly, "that's unacceptable."

If he continues to be repeateldy progressively ruder and meaner after you told him not to do something that hurts, that is a danger sign. You need to be aware of danger signs in order to avoid unhealthy, over controlling, and abusive men because controlling and mean behavior can get even worse escalate in to other types of abuse (physical abuse, neglect, demeaning a woman to hurt her self esteem) which is not good. In a healthy and harmonious marriage, both people put God first, and then their spouse.

I will pray for you that God reveals to you who your true husband is.

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