I have a four month old baby. and his father gets him every weekend cause he told me he would keep him?

I have a four month old baby. And his father gets him every weekend cause he told me he would keep him" HE told me he would not give him back if I did not let him go every weekend I don't have the money for a lawyer and I am living with my father. I asked him to go buy some dippers for his son and he told me he didn't have the money that weekend that was fine so my dad went and bought them.

He got mad and told me my dad shouldn't be buying him things. So I told him that he told me he didn't have the enthronement I asked him to go get some nursery water in a gallon " that is only 99cents" again he tells me he did not have the money but two weeks later I find out that he went and bought his new girl friend a 300 dollar ring! So I tell him " you have the money to go buy her a ring but you don't have the money to get our child some dippers or wipes or water!

He tells me to get a job! OK I have and had been tiring to get a job but who is going to watch my baby duding the time? I have to take care of my son that is a Jodi right?

We were never married but his name is on the b-cirtificate? Asked by christophersmom 42 months ago Similar questions: month baby father weekend told Family.

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Well, it sounds like YOU both need to grow up and be more responsible! First, he cannot KEEP your baby, if you feel that he's keeping him and won't bring him back, call the POLICE. Second, why is your poor dad having to support this baby?

Seriously, it's not his baby, he's the grandfather, NOT the baby's parents - neither of you are doing what you should for this baby. Your dad has to buy the diapers and support you, the baby and himself? (I don't know if any others live in the same house.) I'm guessing that this child wasn't really discussed in the planning, right?

No discussing how it will be supported or raised? No plan for both of you to get JOBS? See, the funny thing about babies, they cost money, a lot of money.

Unless of course, you are on social programs such as WIC, Food Stamps, Welfare and Medicaid. Then you STILL aren't supporting YOUR baby, Mr. and Mrs. TAX Payers are supporting your baby.It's frustrating to hear that you weren't responsible enough to get a child support order in place, yet. Especially considering that most counties will do this for you, it means that YOU need to be responsible and start making phone calls to the County Courthouse and ask about getting a child support order in place.

Most states actually help with this, now, it's far better than having to pay out on social programs that I mention above. YOU need to do this and do it soon, do not wait. Do not expect him to do it, you need to do this, it sounds like he'll come up with every reason why he can't pay, but done through the courts, he won't have too much of a choice, will he?

Also, he needs to help YOU pay for DAYCARE.So that YOU can get a JOB. You don't have the luxury of NOT working, you can't support your baby, so you need a JOB. I was a single mom, I paid for daycare and worked 2 jobs to take care of my daughter.

What's your excuse? Until you are responsible enough to start working on getting a support and visitation schedule in order, this will remain the same. You two will continue being irresponsible parents and me and all the other tax payers will continue to support your child.

You need to call the County Social Services Office and find out what help you can get. Often you can get free or very reduced legal aid - you just haven't looked or cared to look for help. You are too busy trying to get everyone else to be responsible for your child.

There is reduced childcare, legal aid, and so many other things, you would know if you cared enough to do the research and start trying to provide a better life for your baby. YOU need to GROW UP and become a responsible mother! It's NOT just about you anymore.

Oh, when you DO file the support order, expect him to challenge the DNA. Sources: my opinion .

Check with your department of child services First of all do not let your child's father have him unless you are legally required to do so. Talk to the department of child services, they can help you with child care, so you can find a job, they can help with food for you and your baby, also with legal help. God bless you and take care of yourself and that little one .

You may not need a lawyer. If you live in New York, you can go to the Family Justice Center. I don't know where you live but in New York, there is a place where you can see counselors for free to help you file petitions.

You are supposed to get 17% of your child's father's salary. Don't let him boss you around. Your baby lives with you already, so file for custody(this includes legal custody).

Trust me, I am in the position you're in and I am taking legal action. I have a few cases going on and did not pay a cent yet. Even if you don't live in New York, you should still be able to see legal counselors for free who will help you file petitions for child support and custody..

He said we were never married" You need a lawyer, not the police. Whether you guys were ever married or not, there are child custody and child support issues that need to be worked out. As long as he is the father of the child, he is required by law to help support the child whether he was ever legally married to you or not.. However, the first thing you need is a judge’s order establishing you as the custodial parent and how much support he must pay.

Because you don’t have money for a lawyer, it looks as though in your state you can start by visiting the local Mississippi Child Support Laws Enforcement Office as it looks as if they are designed to help you get that court order. Each county is supposed to have one. Take a copy of your child’s birth certificate with you as that might be all they need to establish paternity."The Mississippi Child Support Laws Enforcement Office can assist families in the location of non-custodial parents, establishing paternity, establishing and enforcing child support orders, collecting and distributing child support payments, modifying child support orders, and working with child support programs in other states to facilitate child support collection.

" child-support-laws-state-by-state.com/mi... "If a child is born out of wedlock, the custodial parents must first establish paternity in order for the courts to establish a child support order. By establishing paternity, the child will know who his or her parents and their medical history. Paternity can be established when both parents sign an acknowledgement of paternity form and return it to a hospital staff member when the child is born.

There will not be a fee for this method. Another method to establish paternity, is to have a genetic test performed on the other parent to see if he is the father of the child/children. Establishing paternity is very important when applying for child support.

It is also important to locate and make sure you have proof that the alleged father is the real father of your child/children. " ezinearticles.com/?Mississippi-Child-Sup... He sounds like a major snark, and if I were you I wouldn’t believe any legal advice he gives at all. Sources: Cited in Answer darwin™'s Recommendations t m Where It Hurts: The Take-No-Prisoners Guide to Divorce--Alimony, Custody, Child Support, and More Amazon List Price: $16.95 Used from: $8.45 Average Customer Rating: 4.0 out of 5 (based on 10 reviews) Custody Wars Amazon List Price: $18.50 Used from: $4.00 Average Customer Rating: 5.0 out of 5 (based on 2 reviews) Child Custody Made Simple: Understanding the Laws of Child Custody and Child Support Amazon List Price: $21.95 Used from: $0.04 Average Customer Rating: 3.5 out of 5 (based on 2 reviews) .

You don't have a job, so you can go to Legal Aid to get a lawyer.

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My parents don't want me to marry the father of my baby...

5 month baby boy,he is suffering from stuffy nose,The things got worsen at night.

Another man might be the actual father of a 15 month old baby.

What are the best baby formulas around for a 3-6 month old.

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