I have a good friend who has a boyfriend . Her boyfriend likes me very much. what should I do?

I have a good friend who has a boyfriend . Her boyfriend likes me very much. What should I do?

Asked by angelmolly 2 months ago Similar questions: friend boyfriend likes Entertainment > Television.

Tell him, in no uncertain terms, that he is a creep and a jerk and you do not want him. I have two questions for you. One, how do you know he likes you, and two, why on earth would you even consider dating him?

You already know he cheats. He is trying to cheat on his girlfriend with you, and will cheat on you with someone else. What a sleaze bag.

You and your girlfriend should tell him to hit the highway.

He messages me everyday, he said he wanna have me, my hands, my body, my smile , my hair..he said he likes my lips and smile. He calls me BABY and ANGEL....i get crazy about that feeling. I feel guilty when I saw my goodfriend...somebody helps me!

I think I don't fall love with him but I cannot stop to thinking of him... angelmolly 2 months ago .

We haven't date yet...we just keep in contacts. We just message or email everyday... angelmolly 2 months ago .

He's a total pig. And you are a fool, if you break up a friendship for this loser. He will be calling some other girl baby and angel when he is supposed to be dating you.

Grow up. Words are cheap. S actions should let you know that he is a dirtbag.

But clearly, you really do not care about what we think. You don't want help. You want us to tell you that stealing some bucket of pond scum from your girlfriend is ok, and I am not going to do that.

Just don't come back here crying and asking us for help when he treats you like he is treating his current girlfriend.

We haven't date yet...we just keep in contacts. We just message or email everyday... Why on earth would you be talking to your friends boyfriend every day? Ugh.

I take back what I said. You two deserve each other.

Thank you for your sweet words! But what shoud I do? They are together for one years and they live together now.

Three days ago I met him, I think he loves me at first sight. He always tells me how beautiful I am. He said he wanna have me but he never says he likes me.

What does he mean? He said we need talk someday about this. He always says he is thinking of me?

I wanna know what he has in mind? And my good friend is sooooo good! I love her very much...she is soooo nice and good to me.......... angelmolly 2 months ago .

I feel so embarrassed. Angelmolly 2 months ago .

Move to another country and make some new friends.

If she is truly your good friend then the answer is obvious.

I'm going to be very honest with you, so brace yourself. If you consider dating him, you're a horrible friend and a slutty person, honestly. Your friendship should mean more to you than some jerk who wants to cheat."we haven't date yet...we just keep in contacts.

We just message or email everyday... "If I were your friend, I would beat the crap out of you for talking to my boyfriend. I was going to tell you to tell your friend what he's doing, but she would find out what a crappy friend YOU are. You're only thinking about him because of pet names.

He's a creep who would cheat on you, just like he's doing to your friend. Don't you get it? You're not special, you're a pawn in his game.

Have some freaking respect for yourself.

I'm crying after reading your words, I feel I am disgusting! Anyway thank you for careing about me! I know I was wrong!

So what should I do? How should I face him next time? Angelmolly 2 months ago .

You should tell him that you respect your friend and this needs to stop. Tell him you're not interested. If you plan on telling your friend, DO NOT tell him that.

Because then he could tell her first and act like you instigated it. Honestly the best thing to do is to tell your friend. Show her the text messages and everything he's said.

Tell her you started to fall for it but you came to your senses. Tell her you started to be stupid but you don't WANT to be stupid and you want her to know everything. Coming clean is the best policy.

Thank you for your sincere words! But I don't want to hurt her. She loves him very much and I can tell she is very happy with him.

She doesn't know anything! Everytime we met , I and he always pretend to be strange... I donn't want to tell her. Do you have another method?

Angelmolly 2 months ago .

She would kick him out and probably never talk to YOU again. If you value your friendship, you will tell her. It doesn't matter if you don't want to, it's time to be a grown-up and do what's right, regardless of your feelings.

Life is all about facing our fears and doing what we NEED to do. This time, you did some wrong and you need to make it right.

I have to cry.....I deserve it! For a mistake, I got a big problem! I will think about it!

Angelmolly 2 months ago .

All you need to think about is what you're going to say to her. Seems to be a simple start to me. If you do anything else other than tell her, you're honestly not a good friend.

Actually she is an American girl and I'm a Chinese girl, and he is from the south of America..... angelmolly 2 months ago .

Yeeessssss. What makes your ethnicity any different? It still doesn't change the fact that you betrayed your freaking friend.

If you really feel as bad as you say you do, just tell her. That's all I'm going to repeatedly say to you is tell her. You asked what you should do, the ONLY thing you should do is tell her.

Again, you NEED to tell her or you ARE a bad friend.

To be honest, you could just be taking it the wrong way. And that would be very embarassing if you are. If you really are sure that he likes you, then you have to just confront him and tell him that he either needs to stay faithful to your friend, or break up with her (That doesn't give you the right to chase him down)Ask on, DeSea .

What all the others said is very true,now sit down and think about it,he is with your good friend,and he wants you,THINK about that one for 2 seconds he is willing to cheat or leave your friend for you,NO matter what he tells you ,your not special and he will do the exact same thing to you when some one hotter comes along,and you keeping intouch with him just makes him know he has his foot in your door,HE will without a doubt hurt you like he is willing to do with your girl friend. BUT YOUR NOT GOING TO LISTEN TO ANY OF US,ARE YOU? .

I'm listening to all of you now! My heart is in pain. And I feel so bad about myself!

So tell me what should I do...please... angelmolly 2 months ago .

STOP communicating with this guy,and tell him there is no way on earth that you would hurt your friend by doing anything with him,and if he still insists on keeping in touch with you, YOU will be forced to tell your friend of his actions. IF he says he will leave your friend for you,realize he will do it to you when the next hottie comes along.

Ok , I got it! I'm so fool! Thank you for telling me that seriously!

Thank you very much.. and I wanna tell you that I am not a bad girl , I just made a mistake like a child. Iwish my girl would like to excuse me , though she never knows this thing! Pray!

Angelmolly 2 months ago .

Tell him in no uncertain terms that you value your friendship with her and will never betray her and to forget any ideas that he has of a romantic nature. If that doesn't discourage him, you could threaten to tell her but I've had the experience that the girl believes that you are the aggressor when he jumps the gun first in anticipation of your telling her. It's safer just to deal with him firmly.

He is HER boyfriend. Don't hurt your friend like that.

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