I need tips for keeping calm when my fourteen year old son challenges me?

What I have found to be helpful when I'm in that situation with my children is to STOP, THINK, CHOOSE THE RIGHT OPTION ON HOW TO DEAL WITH THE CHILD APPROPRIATELY, AND PROCEED WITH THE RIGHT OPTION. We can always remind our children that when we tell them to do something or give them advice on not to do something that it's for their own benefit and that we tell out of care and concern. If it's at the point to were it's getting intense, I would separate myself until we both calm down and choose a great time to speak with them when their more ready to hear.

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