I want ask hard question bec I am heavy confuse bec a nice guy I know he strong like me or love me but I don't have fe?

I think one of the most annoying aspects of the dating game (besides that it's a "game" or a "scene") is that few of us are experts in deciphering body language. Sometimes it's hard to tell whether that cutie who flirts like mad really likes you or is having fun stringing you along. Some people (girls) flirt for the attention.

Many guys are either clueless, shy, or have weak stomachs. Others have to be physically restrained. The only signals I ever get are mixed.

Man, but that stuff wears me out. Together we can cut out some of the guesswork. So, if you tell me what you've done to attract the attention of your crush, I can sort it out and post it here in one indispensable reference guide.

Still wondering how this will help you get a little something, something? Hopefully, you'll find new information...and information, my friend, is power. Power, obviously, means more time in the sack.

At the very least, you'll have a better idea of whether you're making progress or wasting your time. So tell me your courtin' secrets. Do you play hard to get?

Hit on her friends? Avoid eye contact? (um, that's me) Stalk?

Feel your cheeks heat up to 900? F? (Me again) And mention what happens when you aren't interested.

It's not always as obvious as you think...People can be stubbornly optimistic, when it pertains to their attractiveness to the opposite sex. I'm counting on my peeps. (The comments have been broken into nine parts.

Before we begin, I'd like to mention something that I'm not sure has been addressed -- personal space. That invisible bubble we all carry around us through which none but the chosen may enter. Unless you've got them up against a wall, people aren't going to let you inside their personal space unless they like you or are very comfortable with you.

So as a quick test, briefly and unobtrusively lean into her personal space and gauge her reaction. If she's looking for an escape route, you're a done deal. But if she smiles or you feel a little charge of electricity, there's probably something worth pursuing.

On to Part IX! Try to be mysterious at first. Don't give too much away about yourself.

Always leave them wanting more. Wear sexy shoes and great smelling perfume. Act feminine but also be into his hobbies like sports; men love this combination.

Don't be judgmental or critical. If a girl you have a crush on stares at you a lot she is either thinking about you, she's distracted, and/or she is just staring into space. If she is always talking about you or your friends, she has noticed you in some way.

If she is always smiling, laughing, blushing, etc. whenever someone says your name or when you speak (to your friends or whoever), when you are called on in class, or when you do something she probably likes you. If she is playing with her hair or doing something eye catching in your direction it's possible she likes you. If she likes you she might stare at you long enough to get your attention and then give you a (shy) smile...If she is shy then she might stare at you and when you catch her eye she will look away.

Try and strike up a conversation with her and get to know her better. That always gets her interested. If she likes you she'll probably get tense, start to sweat, blush, laugh, stare, or look very nervous around you.

Just be yourself! Try to look at him several times. Let him know you're thinking of something!

I'm a guy, so girls, guys love it when you laugh, so try to make him laugh. Also, if you say you're bad at something, if he likes you, he will disagree. Eye contact, don't flirt with every other guy and if you do flirt with the other guys, make sure you flirt more with the guy you like.

That's my advice, but I need some advice of my own. I'm a part-time model and none of my friends know, nor do my parents. Should I tell the guy I like that I'm a model?

He won't find me as interesting. I'm a guy and I know this girl likes me and I like her back. We both stare at each other and are really cool around each other.

Here's my advice to you guys. Fight her fight. Be cool and normal, not cocky.

Ask her to small things first, such as dances, before asking her out. Never flirt with her friends and try to remain cool when her boyfriend breaks up with her on Valentine's Day. Do not be violent (i.e.

Go talkin about war, guns or bloody movies.) Show interest and let her know you're there. Be nice to her friends, but not too nice. Language, making her jealous is a bad idea.

By looking into each other's eyes in my experience means you guys have compassion and like each other very much...the "you're gonna get laid" is a bunch of bull***. Flirt with her, but don't make it seem you're just into her body and not her whole physical and mental being. Than friends and never seeing her again...I've had hands-on experience.

I'm a girl. Now (unfortunately) the guy I like is sort of a playa. But, some guys who are kind of playas, once you get him, he's yours.

What I've learned from him is that he only likes to think he's a playa. A lot of guys are like this. Now how to get him.

I got my guy by just being myself. Find something to bond over. Even if you know the answer, ask for help or for his advice.

Talk to him. Oh, and if one of your other Bffs happens to be a guy, act normal around your guy bff, but let the guy you like know that it's him you like, not your guy bud. And on a side note, (this has happened to both me and many other girls) if he says he doesn't like you, it doesn't always mean that he does.

No matter how cocky they are, if they really care about you, they're shy. Just hang in there, no matter how hard it seems. Hope this helps!

When I like a girl, I tend to stare at her whenever she's around and then I'll look away when/if she turns around. Right now though, there's this girl that I've liked for about 2 years, and I feel like I love her now. We're all right friends, and I really want to tell her, but I don't want to ruin the friendship that we have...I can't be sure how she'll respond.

Sometimes I feel like I have a chance; other times I feel like there's no way that anything will happen between us. I have no idea what to do or if there's anything between us. I'm a pretty shy/reserved guy, so I don't like doing anything too rash.

If it were anyone else I would have told them already, but this girl is really special...I love her more than anyone else I've ever had a crush on...I guess that's why I'm being so careful. What can I do? Ok answer - if you have the guts, ask her, otherwise you will constantly be left wondering and you never know, she may like you but be as shy as you.

You do not have to ask her in a direct manner, if you hint at it and she is perceptive she will understand your meaning. If not possible, ask her friends, hint to them that you like her and if they understand maybe you could ask them to drop hints for you and get your answer without having to ask her to her face? I just tell him.

If he likes me, great. If he doesn't, I move on. I don't really have any secret.

I've never had a girlfriend, and I've never known someone who liked me, but there are definite signs I use to show how I feel. Usually, I'll notice when she walks into the room immediately and sometimes I'll look up. I can't keep a smile off my face when I'm with her.

I'm one of those guys who is completely wrapped up in how he feels. A girl would have to really be obvious about how she feels -- actually telling me works the best. First of, I'm a guy.

Anyways...When I like a girl, I can't stop looking at her. It's like a magnet draws my eyes towards her. If she looks at me, I just stare back at her until she looks away or smiles.

By the way, we guys HATE it when you girls play hard to get, or try to make us jealous. Usually what happens then is either the guy gives up (75% of the time), he ignores you (forever) or tries harder (1%). Read a lot.

Find yourself in a fun way through art and music, so you want to share. Have a secret. If someone touches you a lot they probably like you :) I poke and prod, hug and squeeze the girls I like a LOT :P It's for that moment of contact.

Act confident, assertive, and show that you enjoy their company and their words without being too overt about it. Compliment, ask questions, and do not do not give them too much attention. Then let things play out as they were meant to.

Don't push anything. What's meant to happen, happens. Don't fight it, unless you want to be miserable (may not be the case for everyone, but it is very relevant to my own experience).

Another thing: surround yourself with the one who you makes you happy, not with the one who you think will make you happy. This also applies to making friends with others in general. So guys are usually completely oblivious!

We should know that by now, girls! Be obvious, but not too obvious, don't give him a complete ego boost by bathing him in compliments, you'll just end up getting hurt because he'll go off and be cocky and confident. Be nice, but not too nice!

I've been there and done that. It's crazy how much a guy can determine your every move. If it gets to the point where his mood determines yours, then you need to take a step back and breathe!

Just ask yourself this: if you've already made it obvious, tried to get close to him, flirted like crazy and he's STILL not responding, then move on, girl! The "I'm in love with my best friend who is almost like a brother to me" is the worst scenario possible. You're pretty much stuck unless you are really open with your emotions with him.

Be yourself, treat him with respect, and let him see that you are a woman worth having...Don't be needy! In truth, I can't act for shhhh! T, so I have to just be myself.

I try and engage in decent conversation, ask questions that have open answers to get him to open up and not just give 'yes, no' answers. I smile, and I look down at the ground sometimes, then when I look up again I stare straight into his eyes. I hope I'm showing that I'm a little bit shy around him, but I like him?!

Also, when I do that I notice chemistry kick in, as he won't let go of your eyes too - and by this time he is probably grinning. Boys are so complicated. In junior high they're so immature.

Don't worry about it too much, GIRLS. All I've ever known how to do is to be a sweetheart. Be there for her when she's going through a rough time; put yourself in her shoes and try to understand where she's coming from.

Ask her how her day was. Make her laugh when she feels like crying... You know, the little things. Despite all this, I always end up as the "close friend but nothing more" guy.

If you're lucky enough to find a girl that likes you, listen to me. Get to know each other. This really helps you know what they are like.

And try to be friends with all guys or girls. I fell for a guy I knew for three years before hand. It can give you a really good chance.

Find out what activities he/she does. If there is anything you like also, do it! It helps so much just being able to interact with them.

We both did marching band. Marching band is for half the year. At least three times a week.

A lot of interaction. Just be really kind. Going on vacation?

Get them a souvenir! Girl you like's cold? Let her borrow your sweatshirt!

Help each other out! It makes your crush think you're caring and sweet and generous all at the same time! It makes the person feel wanted and beautiful.

If they gaze over at you a lot, that's a good sign. DON'T FLIRT WITH OTHER PEOPLE! Seriously, nothing drives me crazier than seeing the guy I like hanging around other girls.

Especially if they're slutty. And girls, don't be clingy. Stand next to them, not on top of them.

Lean towards them when you talk to them. Use their name when you talk (example: what do you think, insert name here). People luv hearing their own name.

Be near them. Stand next to them. For girls, it works well when you kind of lean one leg if you know what I mean.

Just make sure you're leaning towards them. Don't keep it bottled up. Seriously, it can really be bad.

I found it best to tell my cousin who happens to live seven hours away. If you think the person is starting to like you, pull them aside and ask them! Nothing annoys me more than liking someone and not being sure if they like you.

Make the first move. I know it's scary, but it's worth it. Chloe says: Asking someone if he likes you usually leads to deny, deny, deny.

You're putting him on the spot without risking anything yourself. Instead, start the conversation by sharing your feelings first. I hope this helps!

Being confident about yourself, knowing and believing you are sexy will make you more attractive, and it will help you have high self-esteem. Usually, a person knows the attraction is there by the person's stare or look. Getting to read a person's body language is also important.

Don't take forever in thinking whether she likes you or not. Ask her out. Get off the damn computer and think of what you're gonna say.

Trust me, there's always competition. You might win or you might lose. Just don't lose without trying.

Go down swingin' mah nigga! Go down rich too. Ask your buddies to pool in a dollar each for you to ask her out.

"No", she said. "I don't care, I just made 12 bucks". I just be who I am and if he doesn't like it, he can always leave.

This isn't lip-service either, I try to be nervous and false (?) about who I am, because your true self eventually comes thru. Thanks for asking. If he's a straight forward sweet guy, give him lots of eye contact.

If he's a big flirt or player, flirt with the other guys & ignore him. DON'T BE SHY...YOU'RE MAKING US SO CONFUSED! Give him a shy smile, (blushing is optional) then look away -- it usually does the trick!

EYE CONTACT, EYE CONTACT! SMILE, SMILE, SMILE! Signals -- if they're "I like you" ones or just "staring into space" kinds.

GUYS, just letting you know: Girls do not like it when you are too needy before you even start dating. (and vice versa). When I like a male I typically try my best to "accidentally" run into him.

No, not stalking, but a friendly meeting and I will attempt to strike up conversation. EYE CONTACT is KEY. If his eyes are wandering during your conversation most likely he does not see you in this way.

But don't give up! I'm a guy, I only dare to look at my crush when she won't notice me, when she looks back my heart rate will increase and I will automaticaly turn away, I don't know why. Sometimes I really hate myself, even to simply say hi to her I don't have courage.

Usually I can tell if a woman likes me. I'm confident enough to air it if I want to, too. You just have to say what you want to say, damn the torpedoes.

Flirt with other guys when you are around him they get mad jealous! Don't play hard to get if you know they like you. Go for it because if you play hard to get he will eventually give up.

Text/call/or message him a lot and ask him occasionally who he likes if he says idk it usually means you. So there is my advice; love it, hate it, idc just use it! The way I let a guy know if I like him is not by touching or "coincidentally" running into him, but finding reasons to talk to him.

That one part was funny. If he says no then I tell him all the funny parts to make him laugh. Girls' shoulders and torso pointing to you if she likes you then its true for SOME girls.

I do it sometimes though not intentionally. I often find myself adjusting my shirt when he walks into a room or playing with my hair to make sure it looks nice. I make lots of eye contact no matter how embarrassing it is to me.

I also look at him when he isn't looking or even if he is. If he is then I don't look long but just to hold his gaze for a second or two. So he can take it as a hint.

For all you guys reading this, some girls don't like to make the first move. I HATE making the first move. So it would be nice if you guys would maybe try asking us out instead of the other way around.

Don't try to make her love or like you, just make yourself into someone who can be loved or liked...chicks will be all over ya! If a guy likes you never ever move too fast or you'll regret it later...you will be all interested and he won't, cuz he just used you right there. Don't be "friends with benefits," it never works out.

Ladies, please don't play games. Guys, learn to respect women and see them for who they are. Sex is not everything and I guarantee you that if you respect her and learn to be chivalrous she will learn to eventually love you.

Whenever I like a guy, I COMPLETELY lose interest when I get even the slighest hint that he might like me back. The problem is, the guys are all fantastic, and it's not anything about them that makes me, I dunno, stop liking them. I always seem to have this perpetual interest in this one other guy whose pretty much unattainable.

I guess Im just addicted to the chase, but Im not sure. What do you think? When I like someone, the more I will shrink away from him.

Even though he seems to touch me whenever he gets the chance, I will act cold and pretend to move away. But I like him very much...How to explain that? But yet, he seldom calls or msgs me.

Is it because we work together, or is he just an idiot with HPs? Well I have to say this. I am an extremely shy guy.

I like this girl, and it is not really about her looks all that much, I mean she is cute, nice, smart, and just perfect, but what really gets me is that we have a lot in common. She was assigned to sit near me in class one day, and I needed some questions for another class, so I got her phone number. Then the following weekend we talked for like 3-4 hours, and I really got to know her.

However, I cannot tell if she likes me or not. I mean all I do is think of her, I am finding it hard to think about school, even though I am a straight A student. In class I was looking at her, or glancing at her, practically the whole time.

What else should I do? I am worried she might like someone else, and I really am not sure she is single. Should I get to know her more, and look for hints that maybe she likes me back, or should I just ask her out and hope for the best?

The latter would be really hard for me, because as I said, I am probably the shyest guy out there. Thank you to whomever can help me out. I would, and will appreciate any and all suggestions.

And I try to read the girl I like, by her body language. If she does anything that kind of seems strange or abnormal, most likely she likes you. I would find out if she likes me for certain, and if she does, I would like to send her a flower or flowers with a note telling her where I would think would be a good place to meet, not too far but private.

But also somewhere appropriate and not too strong, and ask her out there and then, while looking into her eyes, holding her hand or arm but not forcefully, just gently. And don't sweat, guys, it just gives girls a reason to not to go out with you cause you're all nervous...And try not to be too rough, just relax. If she says no, than at least you gave her the flowers to show her you have class, and a "romantic" side.

However, there's one kind of dating advice that's "one size fits all." That's the advice you're getting about extended eye contact. If ANY non blood relative looks at you with extended eye contact it is a sexual invitation.

That's because people of BOTH sexes don't do this unless they're interested in having sex with you. Now, just because someone wants to have sex with you doesn't mean they CARE for you. Most guys out there will screw anything in a skirt (especially if he's desperate).

However, making extended eye contact means they are willing to at least USE YOU FOR SEX. Beware, wealthy guys, gold diggers will play stupid and pretend they don't know you're just using them. Then they'll go off their pills without telling you and get pregnant to make you pay.

Girls, there are many guys who will make extended eye contact and try to pick you up. They're just trying to save money on a hooker. They'll tell you any crap you want to hear to get you to put out (so they don't have to pay someone).

My advice is: don't be a cheap, easy lay, don't be a free hooker service, and don't put out outside of marriage, unless you want to end up like one of those pathetic females who has to get pregnant so their guy won't dump them after they've finished using them. Hope this advice helps. He looks you in the eye and you return his smile...usually if he's looking at you it's a huge clue that he likes you!

I know my guy likes me because he calls me every night just to talk...And I don't have to ask him to call me! I also know he likes me because every time we are at a party he will try to hold me in his arms every second even though all of 'his boys' are around! I'm not kinda needing advice, but I can tell ya, hard-to-get does NOT work, I've tried it.

Let him work for it, but don't make it that hard, cause then he'll lose interest. Talk to him. Show how you feel about him.

If you love/like him, tell him. Don't give up. If you are shy, like I used to be, show him you care for him.

If he is depressed, show him you hurt for him. One time, the popular guy who liked me, liked me for how I am, crazy, funny...He even said I'm cute. I WAS shy until I showed him how I feel.

Well, there is this guy I like...and the way I send vibes to him is that I glance his way sometimes and try to catch his eye...or sometimes I flirt a little bit, but not much! I try to talk to him, sometimes, too! He blushes when you're around.

He starts stammering when he's talking to you. His voice become softer. Does he look at you enviously when you're talking about a different boy or to a different boy?

Does he ask your friends about you? Does he ask his friends about you? If so, maybe he's curious to know what you're like and all, but is too shy to approach you.

Does he stare at you and if you look back at him, he quickly turns away? Does he give you a small smile or return your smile? It's a sign but a guy can also smile back if he's the friendly/polite type.

Does he go in the opposite direction at times and act as if he doesn't like you? Sometimes it might be a sign that he might like you but is too shy to approach you or go in your direction, he's afraid he might do something stupid and embarrass himself. Does he walk with his head down?

(And not because he's sad), another sign. Does he ignore you whenever you're around...but looks at you when he knows/thinks you're not looking? Then it could mean he's a shy guy and he likes you.

He's just shy and doesn't want to get rejected! So if you like him and know for sure he likes you, ask him out! Or better yet, show signs and/or strike up a convo and see if he asks you out!

I hope this helps...and by the way, I'm a girl and I have gathered this information from my experiences, a shy guy friend, and others! OK, just saying, as a girl, when a guy flirts with me alone and then completely ignores me and flirts with everyone else when we're at a party, that does not make me want him whatsoever. I'm a girl -- and I really like my bff's brother...let me tell you, it's awkward!

But anyway, I smile at him and give him a look that says, "I want to be with you," and I always -- and I mean ALWAYS say hi to him...just to get him to at least look at me! I also turn pretty quiet around him -- I usually try to communicate with him by eye contact and smiling. I also told him in a letter that I liked him, and he said it back...but in person he hardly looks at me in any special way and he acts normal with his friends or that he doesn't even know me!

And I get a feeling that he always tries to skulk away whenever I'm around! If we're alone together, he always responds to my conversation with one word answers, or there's always awkward silences. He's so confusing!

I want to make the first move to get a relationship going, but I'm afraid he'll push me away or something if I try to touch him! Oh well...men are so confusing! A guy likes you if he talks to you when your back is turned.

I'm never shy at approaching women...I have a GPS system functioning in my psyche, to show me my position in the situation, and where I need to go to reach my destination... (i. It usually brings a big smile, which opens the door for my engaging approach. But why is it when we finally get together, he suddenly starts playing it cool?

I mean, I've heard of "treat them mean, keep em keen..." But seriously. No girl likes to start off with a real sweet lad who later decides to treat you like crap and leave you wondering where you stand. After all, girls go out with guys because they like the way they are.

I really don't see why guys seem to think changing their attitude like this is gonna do them any favours? Recently...I now disagree. I was really into this guy, I tried flirtin, he just got jealous and started warning all my male friends off...It wasn't a pretty sight.

Ok, a bit of flirting never hurt anyone. How would we feel if it were us being blanked and made to feel ugly? I think guys need to stop the wanky attitude...Just be yourself however you come...right from the word go!

And girls...Just be yourself and don't go around flirting with the lads just to try n get a guy to pay an interest. Everyone be yourself and let each other know how you feel! Okay, as a girl, and being extremely shy, I will not go up and tell a guy I like him, or that I am interested.

I am just too shy. I'm not a baby, anyway, it's not a one size fits all world, and how one treats a member of the opposite sex and/or same sex depends on the individual. Also, remember that there are MANY members of BOTH sexes who will pretend to like you, even lie and say they're in LOVE with you to accomplish an ulterior motive.

Generally, guys lie and say they're in love with girls they could care less about to get free sex (and then they won't marry them or anyone else). Girls lie and say they're in love with guys they secretly hate or could care less about TO GET MONEY OUT OF THEM. THIS IS THE MOST NORMAL THING FOR A FEMALE TO DO.

MARRIAGE FOR FEMALES IS A CRAPPY JOB TO PAY FOR THE HOUSE. ANY COMMENTS, EMAIL: email protected. Straight forward sign...If I like a girl I'll stare at her without even realizing what I'm doing.

It always happens no matter how conscious of it I am...People just stare at what is pleasant to their eyes. Always check the eyes, ladies and gents. If they're outgoing...they'll check you out.

If they're shy...they'll glance at you and if you catch them they'll look away. If they've had some experience...they'll still stare. It's always the eyes, people...I can't stress it enough.

I like this boy at work but he's a lot older than I am...We never speak unless he bumps into me. It's very hard for me to determine what kind of guy he is. He can be shy or confident as well...Every time I'm around he seems to choke up a bit...so he gives some clues, I guess.

He looks at me a lot = eye contact. Most of the time, I catch him looking at me...then sometimes I look at him and he turns away...but he passes by me a lot...It makes me feel happy. My feelings right now are mixed...but this guy definitely has me hooked on to him.

But I don't wanna make a fool out of myself in case he doesn't feel the way I do. So for all you guys out there, please give girls clear signals that you want on! Make that move and ask her out!

Make her happy and she will love you even more. Girls, DON'T PLAY HARD TO GET, IT DOES NOT WORK. Guys admire confidence, go over and talk to him.

If you think he likes you, tell him that you like him, notes, e-mails, text messages, etc. usually work out great. If you like someone DON'T change your personality, just be yourself. Now that I have given advice, I need some as well.

I like this girl a lot, I think she might like me, but her best friend has a crush on her, too. I am not shy but not too brave, either. I need to tell her I like her before he does, but I don't know how.

When you have a crush on a guy and you start to think that he doesn't like you, DON'T keep it from him any more. Just TELL him instead, straight, before you do anything stupid, instead of leaving it to the point where you've done too much damage and made yourself look like a fool. It's the eyes over here.

When I'm attracted to someone, I try to make eye contact with them for at least 20 sec. Then occasionally I might try to catch a glimpse of them when something funny or stupid happens...to see just how their smile looks...and it just happens that just after I look at them their eyes seem to find a way back to me then we look away...and a few seconds later we both make that eye connection once more; I just start smiling and look away because I know this person has an attraction for me. Later on, when I see them in the hallway or something I look at them and say hey and we somewhat start to get close and next thing every time we see each other, we hug.

Sometimes you shouldn't, but I make friends with the guys I like first. It's a little risky if you don't move quickly through this stage, but yeah. I make friends with them, get some background info, and if he doesn't get that he should make the first move (I'll tell ALL of my friends I like him and then they'll automatically start spreading it around, it's a girl thing, and he should hear about it from one of his friends soon enough) then I'll slip him a note or start acting more flirtatious.

If he STILL doesn't get it I just straight up ask him out or if he's a little shy I'll ask him if he wants to do anything over the weekend. If I ask the guy out and he says yes, then you win, if he says no, you might risk losing your friendship but most often than not your bond will be even stronger and you'll be better friends. For the shy guy, after a few times out I'll email him or something and sorta let him know I like him, because people share their feelings much easier over email/IMing, so he might tell me how he feels too.

If he likes me back then I'll ask him out if he doesn't first, if not, stronger friendship most of the time. I have yet to lose a friend because I liked him. She'll look up your number in the phone book, get it from one of your friends, or get it directly from you.

She'll smile at you a lot, especially if you catch her looking at you or she catches you looking at her. If she doesn't move her arm or leg if yours brushes against hers. If she gives you a lot of hugs (WARNING: Some girls just like hugging people a lot like I do...LOL).

If she acts differently towards you than other boys, like she's nicer, more outgoing, or sometimes much more shy. If you guys face each other and make direct eye contact while talking. If she asks you what you're doing that weekend and asks if you wanna hang out and study or invites you to an outing with some of her friends.

If she tells you or writes a note telling you. Most girls don't lie when they tell you something like that so don't think it's a joke or think she's out to embarrass you, she's telling you for a reason. If she gets mad/jealous when you don't talk to her or sit by her.

(That's so me. I'm a shy guy when it comes to these things, but you put me in a ring or an octagon and I can fight like no other...Put a really cute girl in front of me and I become a shy little boy. Anyways, when I like a girl I'll look at her when she's not watching, I'll talk to her when I get the chance and when she goes out with someone else I give her attitude.

Don't always talk about yourself -- make it all about him. If someone doesn't like you, stop trying to get him to like you. Okay, so i'm kind of a shy guy.

I'm not afraid to admit it. (Kinda lame.) But I either ask the girl out over the phone, or e-mail or something, because I have had emotional problems with being rejected in person. Anyway (that was off the subject of my point), girls, if I have any advice, it's this: don't wait for the guy to ask you out.

If he doesn't do it within 5 months (after you two have hung out, flirted, etc.), you make the move. It may be a little awkward, but don't be too shy. If you are, he'll never know what he's missing.

And guys: don't be too rude to the girl. Even if it's just teasing. If you both know there's chemistry, make a move.

Because if you don't, someone else will. Women sometimes do not show that they are interested in a guy. For instance, I've been interested in someone for about a year, we ended up flirting and kissing one night, having had a crush on him for months.

Although we haven't met up or dated, I still fantasize about him, but would never call him or go where he goes out, afraid he might realize I like him! Is it possible that guys are the same? Do they act like this, too?

Particularly, shy ones? When I like a guy, I look at him a lot. I make eye contact and when he notices I'm looking at him, I look away and smile.

It works for me a lot. My friends say I'm a BIG flirt. I just go up to whomever and talk.

Eventually it will all spill out. Well, I feel like I'm pretty much a pro with flirting 101. It's all a game to reel him in; it's a chase.

The harder he is to get, the more fun it is. Guys will come to you, but you have to show what you've got. Throwing yourself at someone is a total turn-off and will never work, unless you're trying to be known as a slut.

It's important to be subtle. DON'T always be there ready for his attention. First and foremost, put yourself out there.

Spot the guy you are attracted to and rule #1 -- make him notice you -- laughing and smiling is definitely key to this. But, don't let him see you looking at him first. Rule #2 -- By this time you can scope out the scene, nonchalantly see if he spots you yet.

Then, stop right by him and wait for him to glance up, hold the stare, smile, and then start talking to your friend. Look back a few seconds later and quickly look away. Rule #3 -- Now, have fun and look relaxed.

Just be yourself and if he's interested then he will be checking you out, waiting for you to look at him. But, DON'T look yet. Rule #4 -- Try to mingle and casually make your way over to his area.

Rule #5 -- If you know someone around him or one of his friends, chat away. It shows you're friendly. Now this is your chance.

It's either a hit or miss at this point. Remember his name. Rule #6 -- Keep eye contact and smile.

Then check him out real quick and glance away. Look back, and smile. Keep the convo short and sweet.

Rule #7 -- Now this is your chance to play hard to get. He wants what he can't have, too. If he is totally interested he'll wait right there for you.

Rule #8 -- If he's there, you got him! Now you can just be yourself and see if you click or not. Make sure to not drink too much, but definitely have a good time.

Don't stay by him the whole night though. That seems desperate. It's in your hands now, it will either work out or not.

Oh, and don't forget to get those digits or vice versa. Now you know how it's done. I like to kiss the guy I like before I go out with him.

Most of the time I'll make out with him after I get to know him, even if I am not dating him. If a boy says he likes you, it's best not to tell him you like him. He could just be saying that to tell the whole school you like him.

That could get really embarrassing and the other girls who like that person will probaly tease you. Sorry to say this girls, but sometimes you make us go crazy with the "I like you, but I'm not not sure if I do" kinda thing. Yes, you make it obvious that you like us but then you turn around and freakin' ignore us.

I know it's a flirting thing but come on! Ok, I said "" and she jumped on me...I'm not lying. Leave him wanting more...don't just answer all his questions.

If he asks, " are you doing anything Friday night," say, "I don't know, I have a photo shoot," or something flirty so he will be drooling all over you. FOR GUYS: Mmkay so basically, girls absolutely HATE IT when guys act all tough and always talk about how buff they are and blah blah blah, they never shut up enough to let us get a word in. It's like, is this supposed to impress me?

Because it doesn't. Especially since most of the guys who think that they're buff...well...they really aren't. Sorry : Try to be more humble guys : Girls will appreciate you a whole lot more.

A boy likes you if: he makes contact with you, like touching your shoulder...when he laughs, his pupils dilate...when he is around you, he oh so accidentally brushes his leg against yours. He smiles a lot...he makes eye contact with you...he blushes around you...he is just plain kind to you! If you have a crush on a good friend of yours, here is what you should do (this will definitely work if the guy you like has a sense of humor and if you have the guts).

If you're a girl, kiss your friend (who's a girl) on the cheek, then kiss him on the cheek and if you want, you can look at him and say, "You've been kissed by an angel." Look for a reaction. If he liked it as much as you did, this will probably give him the push he needs to tell you how he feels, or his reaction might give you the reassurance that you need to ask him.

Look, if you want to know if a guy likes you (I'm a girl), just make eye contact. If he holds it for more than a couple of seconds, it means that he is comfortable being around you. Also take a step toward him, invade his bubble just a bit.

If he doesn't step back that probably means he likes you. Okay, if you like a girl, be more direct! It drives us crazy when one day you flirt, and the next you don't.

Smile at her! If she likes you, she'll smile back or come closer. Girls don't like guys with absolutely nothing to say, so bring up something you two have in common (if there is anything) or talk about a general topic.

If she truly does like you, she will contribute to the conversation and maybe, later on, you'll catch her looking at you from a distance and quickly turn away. I'm a girl. The thing about mixed signals...the reason is that we are not sure whether we like the guy or not.

I'm going through this phase now. I am thinking about this guy I met 2 months ago all the time, I think I have a crush on him, but I cannot imagine being with him. So one day when I feel amorous, I am very nice to him, another day I cannot stand him, and I am cold or mean.

I feel like such a bitch. Thing is, we don't devise or give out mixed signals to confuse people, we just act the way we feel. JUST BE YOURSELF; THAT IS THE KEY.

I'm extremely shy around the guys I like. Most of my guy friends are younger than me so they just feel like little brothers. That means that I usually don't know the guys that I like very well at all.

Whenever I get around a guy I like, I act way obvious, but not on purpose, I just can't help it. I stutter over all my words, I'll look at him and if he sees me looking back I usually look away or else I'll try to look confident and act confident, but I end up breaking the contact and looking down. I try to be around him so that he'll notice me.

I'll join a club I know he's in so that maybe we can get to know each other. So far it hasn't worked. I wonder if that's because I'm sending mixed signals.

I don't mean to do this. After I've been way obvious flaunting myself, if the guy doesn't immediately notice me and make me feel special, I'll over analyze the situation and assume he doesn't like me. I'll try to tell myself that he isn't worth the time, that I don't like him.

That works for about two days -- then I'm right back to crushing and being in places I know he'll be and saying hi to him and going to club meetings. So guys, if a girl is sending mixed signals, chances are that she really likes you but doesn't know what to do because she's completely confused. Oh, my secret is just playing with my tongue.

I give them the eye. Guys out there, some girls are very shy, others are outgoing, and some are like me; shy at first, but then go for what they want. If you're into the shy girls, you'll have to make the first move, smile and talk to her, think of things beforehand to start up a conversation.

If you like the outgoing girl, it should be no problem to notice if she likes you -- is she always touching you, laughing a lot, joking with you/your buds? So just ask her out before some other guy does. As for the shy then outgoing girls (like me) they are kinda difficult (Okay I admit it).

You might have to start the conversation, or she may make the first move (after awhile though). She'll probably be nervous around you so try to laugh and make her feel comfortable by complimenting her, and flirt by joking and laughing (way easier than trying to flirt by being serious -- too forward) So good luck. Sometimes, guys will just look at you but it doesn't necessarily mean they like you mmmm..kay?

It means they found woozint perty mmmm...kay? Well, (I'm a girl), I'm really shy and all I do is a lot of eye contact...and guys, you really need to send out your signals straight because you get us all confused. I think the problem most people have with their crushes is wanting the other to make the first move.

I have learned the hard way that when you wait for that one person to make you swoon, it probably won't ever happen, especially if you're not doing anything on your part. I always remember when approaching someone I like: whatever way I want him to treat me, I have to treat him the same way. I try to take as many chances as possible with guys I like.

Let's face it, love is either painful or wonderful. There will always be a guarantee you will find love or have your heart broken. You can either choose to do nothing and wait for that special person, or you can make things easier for yourself and make the first move if you feel things aren't moving anywhere or if you're not getting the signals you're looking for.

I try to assess the guy's personalities before I make any moves. I don't want to send him the wrong signals or come on too strong/light. If the guy is shy, I usually take a sweeter and more aggressive approach.

I have observed that shy guys need a lot more encouragement and will be thankful for it. When they are comfortable enough with you, he will be able to make his own moves without it being a problem. Confident guys are well suited for confident, flirtatious, and hard to get girls.

It's no problem for them making the first move if they are experienced or aggressive and it's funner for them to feel like the girl's not being easy on them. This does not apply to every guy, whether shy or outgoing. It really depends on personalities and tastes.

My biggest piece of advice is to never settle on one person if you are single and looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend. That person could end up a lot different than who you thought they would be or become to wrapped up in them. It's not healthy and you should be able to keep a stable hold on your personal life.

The heartbreak is a lot worse when you are rejected by someone you liked, but then had no one to fall back on. If I like someone, I kinda get nervous around her but hey...almost all guys do. Well, sometimes we like to make the girls a little jealous like...why isn't he talking to me or why is he ignoring me?

The truth is...we are not. We are most likely paying attention to you most of the time, and when we see you look at us, it makes us feel good. We do that to see if you like us.

If it works, we might give you a sign and then ask you out. When you try to whisper to him, lean in very close to him. My secret is to be very sweet.

I am a naturally innocent good girl. My crush at this point was compelled to say that I am so cute and sweet! He really said this to me!

Good guys want a sweet and charming girl who is a good person. I've liked this guy since the first time I saw him seven months ago. Since I've started liking him, I always end up staring at him or in his direction every time I see him.

I don't do it because I want him to notice me or anything (I mean I do, but not in that way -- I don't want him to see me staring at him all the time). But I think I do it because I like him so much that I just subconsciously look his way whenever I see him. He always ends up looking at me, too.

Now whenever I see him, he always looks in my direction, and sometimes when he catches my eye, he looks away. So I think he likes me too. I just ended up finding out his email, and I'm planning to email him, and just letting him know how I feel.

I'm really shy, and going up to him is just plain hard. I'm scared to do it as I've never done anything like it before, but after reading the advice of some of the other people on this site, I think I have nothing to lose. I mean, it's either he likes me, too, or he doesn't.

And if he has been giving me the wrong signals all along or something, and I find out that he doesn't like me, then I can finally move on. So to all the shy people out there or anyone in general, if you like someone and think they like you too (ex: because you catch them looking your way), but you are shy to go up to them, find a way to get their email and write them, or send them a note and find a way to give it to them. Even if you don't know whether they like you too, you should still do it anyway, because you never know -- they may actually like you too, or you'll end up being good friends, and who knows what can happen from there.

One way I can tell if a guy likes me is that if he responds to my eye contact, I might walk by him to see if he's looking. If you're in a crowd and he tries to look for you that's another way you can tell if he likes you. When I like a girl, I talk to her more, keep eye contact, smile a lot at her, wink once in a while.

One of the best things though is to start by joking about you two in a relationship. That way, she gets used to the idea, without even thinking you like her if you do it right. Finally, if I can figure out the girl likes me, I'll pull her aside or wait for us to be alone, and just tell her how I feel about her.

Ladies, show us some effort.. it's already hard enough for a guy to tell you that he likes you. My secret is that if you want a guy to like you, just tell him your feelings. Honesty is always the best.

I mean, if you don't tell someone you like him (or her), how is he (or she) ever going to know? The worst that could happen is that he would say no. If he laughs, or whatever else you're thinking he might do, you don't really wanna be with him anyways.

My secret is eye contact. I know so many people say this is the key to flirting, but it's one of the most obvious signs. Wait for him to look you in the eye, and then meet his gaze.

You can even smile if you're feeling brave. Chances are he might be for real if he looks you in the eye for more than three seconds. Make a guy suffer by showing off your beauty and smiling at him.

Most guys lke confidence and honesty, so don't be afraid to talk to the boy of your dreams. Don't lie, be honest and sincere. Well to all the girls, I'd say be yourself and approach the guy and tell him how you feel about him.

Don't be afraid of rejection because there are other boys in the world who would kill to have a girl like you by his side. Boys like girls who are confident. Keep that special somebody entertained by playing childish games, or show him that you care by spending time and bonding with him whenever you get the chance.

I am finally dating the guy who I like. It wasn't easy, but it wasn't hard, either. All I had to do was ask the guy's friend if he would go out with me.

Oh gosh, that was really embarrassing! But I got over it and just asked straight out -- scary, but in the end it worked. I love guys who are confident and not afraid to make the first move (mainly because I am a total chicken when it comes to that) and act like themselves.

Girls love guys who make them laugh...just don't be a total goof all the time. I usually make eye contact with my crushes and see how long it takes for them to notice. If I liked somone, I'd go after them and tell them how I feel, before somone else gets to them.

I'm usually just one of the guys. I'm comfortable, I make perverted jokes, I lounge, and I play video games. It's easier to get into a full-fledged relationship with a guy when you play the "good friend" role.

FOR GUYS: Don't send mixed signals and make sure you make it clear that you like a girl. She will probably respond really well to that and be quite flattered to know someone likes her, because most girls think that guys never notice them. But don't hover over her or be there whenever she turns a corner.

We find it really annoying. And you want to make the girl you like feel special. Pay attention to her, don't ignore her.

Smile at her when you see her. And don't be macho! We hate it when guys act macho.

Don't try to impress her by saying how great you are. I'm a guy. When I like a girl, I tend to stare at her whenever she's around and then I'll look away when/if she turns around.

Right now though, there's this girl that I've liked for about 2 years, and I feel like I love her now. We're all right friends, and I really want to tell her, but I don't want to ruin the friendship that we have...I can't be sure how she'll respond. Sometimes I feel like I have a chance; other times I feel like there's no way that anything will happen between us.

I have no idea what to do or if there's anything between us. I'm a pretty shy/reserved guy, so I don't like doing anything too rash. If it were anyone else I would have told them already, but this girl is really special...I love her more than anyone else I've ever had a crush on...I guess that's why I'm being so careful.

What can I do? I'm not shy. But when I'm around my crush, oh God, I can't talk.

He actually is shy, so put two and two together, you get no talking. We both like each other, but aren't officially dating, although we do go on 'double dates.' If you're shy, double dates are your best friend. Conversation gets going, and then you, your date, your friend, and your friend's date have the best time of your life.

Try it, it's fun. If I like a guy, I'm friendly to everyone but him. And I can NEVER look into his eyes.

Sometimes I try to make him jealous to see his reaction. I try to make as much eye contact as I possibly can. Going to have to contend with.

Unfortunately guys always think that I am playing hard to get...I really hate that one, but I have learned a guy will simply fall in love with if you tell him your true feelings. Like I told this guy, "You have the cutest accent," and then he couldn't let me go. There's this guy in my 6th period class that I became friends with.

I had no idea that he liked me beyond being friends. Oh sure, he flirted with me a little and did things for me in class. He even winked at me from time to time to see if he could make me blush.

The day I broke up with my boyfriend was the icebreaker. That night he broke up with his girlfriend. He had been waiting for me to call it quits with my guy so he could act on his feelings.

Be yourself girls! Let him know the real you. If you like someone, DON'T SEND US MIXED SIGNALS.

IT DRIVES US (I'm a girl) CRAZY. We don't know if you like us or not, and you're seriously driving us nuts! IF Y0U LIKE US, TELL US.

OR, HAVE YOUR FRIENDS DO IT! Or do something a little more direct that tells us you like us! I'm a really shy person around guys I like.

Around my guy friends, I'm completely normal. But then, I see the guy I like, and boom! I choke up, act differently, and become a total spaz.

If I see a guy I like, I try to make a L0T of eye contact. Sometimes it works, and I'll see him lookin' at me. (Yessss!) When I see him, I'll say hi and he'll smile and say hi back.

Girls love it when you smile at them, and they love it when you talk to them. Don't be afraid! We're REALLY not that scary to talk to!

If he's around, I tend to act differently. It's really not my fault, it just happens. If a girl likes you, and you're around, her personality can totally change.

If you look at her, and she blushes, you knowww for a fact that she likes you. And if you're around, her tone changes (she either gets quiet, or her voice gets louder for you to notice her.) BINGO. ASK HER OUT!

And girls LOVE it when you remember stuff about them. It makes them feel special. And little things like notes, IM's, texts, whatever, work like a charrrm.

But being honest, girls think it's super sweet(!) when guys take the time to write notes. They know you care about them. I think that a guy likes you if he enjoys spending time with you, looks deep into your eyes, compliments you, smiles around you, and just plain enjoys your presence!

Gently nudge the guy you like...Stare at him, then look away, see if you catch his eye. Laugh at his jokes. Stand close to him...Play with your necklace.

He'll be drooling in no time. I'm a really shy girl (I'm fifteen) and about two months ago I started to like this guy in my english class...it just so happens he's even shyer than me...he doesn't talk much but he's really funny. Somehow, people found out about my crush towards him and soon enough, he knew I liked him...and I had heard from certain people that he liked me back...but I was never really sure if he did.

So, after liking him (without ever speaking to him) for about 2 weeks, I wrote him a note telling him that I would like to get to know him, and that I was shy, I gave him my e-mail address too. (My friend gave him the note) That night there was a school dance and he came to the dance just because of me...he hadn't been planning to go. So we talked (many awkward moments) and started to really get to know each other on msn and stuff.

And now, we've been going out for 2 weeks, and we're happy. So, for anyone out there who is as shy as I am, writing your crush a note is a good way to go. Girls, I've just got one thing to say.

DON'T PLAY HARD TO GET! When you do, it completely and totally confuses the guy. If you like him, please, please, please make it obvious.

It will be easier on both of you, and the guy will thank you! Note: I am a guy. Okay, one more thing.

A real good place to find out about someone is on the Internet! Just google their name and see what comes up. Also, use the internet to learn about what they like.

That then gives you something to talk about! I want to be near him a lot. But I'm nervous, so I try not to show my interest too much...I will avoid eye contact...I don't talk to him unless he talks to me first...I will blush when a guy I find attractive comes around... I will match my voice to his...not intentionally, it just happens...my friends will stare at you and smile...sometimes I will avoid you...cause I get so nervous, maybe my hands will shake...I don't know why I do this, but sometimes I will act like I don't like the guy cause I'm afraid he will catch on...also I tell people and then they tell the person, so it's pretty much obvious.

When I like/love someone, I pay attention to them a lot more, act very nice around them, make them laugh, pay them hard-to-notice special attention...you know, that stuff. You don't have to listen to me; I've had a previous, 7-month crush on a girl who freaked when she found out I liked her a lot because we are friends and both female. Yes, I'm bi, whooptie-doo.

When I like a guy, I try to get to know him first by just spending time one-on-one. You can never get to know someone when you're always with friends, for some reason people always act differently. Well, first things first, never mind these kid games.

It's either you like the person or you don't. In some cases you may feel physically attracted, but once you acually go out a few times you begin to see that they are not what you expected. In most cases, never believe that "opposites attract."

If you've got nothing in common and they are unable to relate to anything, well enough said. You know what, just be yourself and don't be stupid. If a girl looks at you a lot in class, that means she likes you!

Phone or MSN messenger. But I won't look directly at him -- I'm shy! The guy likes you.

You look at him, he turns in another direction. Cool in front of you, or tell jokes to make you laugh. Because I can't hide my feelings.

Strike up a conversation with my crush. Really my friends so it might be difficult to get the conversation going. You, or how to strike up a conversation with someone who might not know you well.

I treat him as if he's any one of my other male friends. Make excessive eye contact. That's the key.

I'm a girl, and if you're a guy, here's some good advice: Don't confuse the girl you like! This guy I like will flirt with me a lot one day, then the next day he won't. That bothers me a lot.

Just go for it if you think she's interested in you! Make her feel special by talking to her when you're with a crowd. If you're the shy type and she's with her friends, just try to find a chance when she's by herself.

If she is, she will look at you a lot and try to see you whenever she can. So DON'T confuse her! Because I have a couple of guy friends and I've asked them -- they don't like it.

Not gonna be going up to every guy I like, telling him. Best, especially if I see him coming, I'll make sure I'm as good as can be. I also try to get his attention and I like being next to him or close to him.

I'm cocky, and fun. Bring them up. If he might like me before telling him.

Just act natural. Yourself, and make her laugh. Her side, and will help or accept her no matter what.

A girl feel wanted. If you're sure he likes you, play hard to get -- not to the extreme that he can't tell that you like him, but just far enough to keep him coming back for more. Look sensual, but only for a few seconds.

Then look away. Contact with him, I mean. To an area around him.

To look my way. After a while, I do tell him I like him. Talk to the girl you like, a little bit more than other girls.

Important, compliment her on something she did. Hot, personally I would be revolted. Called hot, but you might be a little safer with saying she looks cute.

When someone likes you, he will stare at you a lot. People don't usually stare at people they're not attracted to. Eye contact is primordial.

But, damn, why is it so hard for some guys to make that first move? Guys, if you get the feeling that the girl might like you back, go up to her and let her know! Don't wait for her to come up to you!

I'm a girl, by the way. Just be yourself! Try wearing pieces that reflect your personality!

I love to layer necklaces and wear one-of-a-kind shirts and accessories. I get a lot of compliments from cute guys when I wear them! It makes me stand out against all the fashion model lookalikes at my school.

Trust me, I know a ton of guys who would rather date a fun, unique girl than a boring-as-mud beauty queen! I look into his eyes and if I see something -- I don't know what -- a spark, or a shimmer, or something that is not usually there, he is totally interested, but don't stare at him too hard, as you might scare him. Just give him a nice, innocent, sweet smile.

Don't ask HIM out, let him ask YOU out, then when you answer say something like, I don't know, let me think about it, or ask me again later. If you ask him out, it makes you seem desperate, or easy. Don't talk a lot, keep it small, but don't totally ignore them.

Whenever I catch a girl staring at me I look her straight in the eyes and smile, she'll either smile back or look down and pay attention to something else, this depends whether she's shy or a flirt. Generally I am a shy guy, I put on the act that I'm neither shy or outgoing. So I like the shy girl more, currently it's hard for me when both girls are in the same class..If I ask the shy one a personal question, like for her phone number then the other one will get on my case.

Don't try too hard, but don't let the other guy in class talk to them much, don't stalk but be protective. I just try and be as nice as I can around him...smile, be interested in him...but not always do people send out the right signs. Look at his body language -- is he near you, does he make eye contact, show interest, does his body face you, or is he trying to get closer to you...always vital signs.

I make sure I'm always looking good around them, I let my hair down and look their way a lot. I like to twirl my hair and throw little smirks his way...after awhile I'll walk up to him and ask him if he wants to get a drink...If he buys, Score! If he makes you buy your own...Bye, bye, buddy boy.

If a guy likes you, he will act embarrassed around you and he will blush a lot. When you get up, he will check you out and if he sees someone else checking you out he will get really jealous and frustrated. I hang out with him a lot...to make sure he knows I am here...I ask him to do stuff for me....to make him feel needed.

Guys want to feel needed...I talk to him almost every day...and I wear this perfume/ body spray that smells like vanilla. Because I read once that men associate vanilla and cinnamon with love...And all I have to do now is wait for him to come to me...He talks/ reacts to me more when I am wearing the perfume and I really like that...But don't act like you're desperate or you'll definitely scare him. Relax when you talk to him...he's just another person like you and me.

Be confident...men will always appreciate confidence. And one more thing. Don't put a lot of perfume or you're just gonna get sick of it.

I'm 15 yr. Rather shy and scared of rejection). Cold and I act like I don't care at all.

Signals...which I know is mean, but I can't help it. Confidence, even if you aren't on the football team or the most popular, make-up wearing girl in the school, even if you are shy or a tomboy, just be confident. Say what you want on a topic, even if your crush doesn't agree, disagreements can be very interesting and ignite a spark.

Don't be a puppy dog either and follow him and act like he is the only one in the world. You might be able to do this when dating but not when you are just friends or even if you aren't. Leadership, and skills can impress and be very attractive.

This goes for girls and guys. Standing up for people can also be attractive, it says that you are your own person and not afraid to be who you are, and stand up for what you believe in. If the guy or girl is a good catch they will think this is very sweet.

Confidence remember, confidence, and make every move worth something. I don't tell him anything or just little superficial things and leave him wondering, keep him asking! Also, don't talk about your past relationships.

Put effort into appearance. Looks like she got in a fight with a train and lost. At least notice that you're trying.

More to love than a skinny girl. Don't try so hard to get noticed. Whenever you walk by.

Throw themselves at them, you would too if you were that guy! Give him attention. When you pay attention to them.

With them every chance you get, but just start by talking to them. Annoying and they may not like that. You see them.

That's bound to start a conversation! Guys like compliments. Look, a boy will appreciate being told he looks hot.

Ego, and will generally like any girl who can make him feel like a king. Believe it or not, they actually find it flattering to