If a 30 year old male dates an 18-21 year old female, is that considered illegal?

No. 21 is the legal drinking age in many states, but the age of majority is 18. That's not to say it will work out.It's still more acceptable than a 30-year-old woman dating a younger man, but with a 9-12 year age difference, there are going to be many differences in looking at the world and many things that these people won't share.

Those things can be overcome with a lot of dedication and effort, which can make the relationship even more special than the usual ones. But the people involved really need to ask themselves if they feel capable of making that kind of sustained effort, and if the relationship is serious enough to be worth that kind of effort. For just going out for fun, maybe--but there still won't be that kind of stuff people of the same generation share.

There's also the fact that when the bigger, stronger person in the relationship is also older, it kind of skews the balance of power and respect in the relationship. Maybe it doesn't matter so much for casual dating, but if it becomes more serious and long-term, it could make a big difference.

No, it's not illegal. I'd personally say that it is ideal. If I was a single 30 year old male I would be dating 18 year olds as much as possible.

Its not illegal in the US but these type of relationships with so much difference in age rarely work out.

There's no question of legality. But since the "but it won't work out" question has come up, I'll throw in an opinion. There are a lot of factors that make a relationship more challenging, and this is certainly one.

Others include: Cross-cultural relationships (statistically much higher rate of divorce) Dating someone at work (well-known perils, but 75% of married couples start here) Dating someone in any close-knit social group Dating someone from completely outside one's social group or class Dating someone with a very different education and/or income level I could go on. Each one of these things can create strain in a relationship, but the truth is that if you find someone you really like, and you both are willing to work for it, you're better off than the vast majority of couples.

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