I don't see how a relationship can be both non-mating and sexually exclusive mating at the same time. They seem to be mutually exclusive. That's just simple logic.
Your god has no place or relevance in the life of people who don't follow your religion. Why can't you grasp that?
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.