If I like my best friend more than a friend and we're both girls, how should I tell her my feelings?

The way you tell someone you care is not based on gender. If you're asking how can you tell her without risk of rejection? No different than telling anyone, really.

If you need acceptance and validation for your feelings, looking to someone else is never the answer. Well, never the best answer. Considering the fact that people who are kidnapped can develop feelings for their kidnappers, I'd venture to say that who or what we are attracted to has nothing to do with genetics or science alone.It's based on personal choice and the situations we put ourselves into (or find ourselves in).

I am faced with choices every day. Some I act on, others I don't.It's up to me either way no matter how strong the feelings are. I enjoy the personal empowerment and no one can take that away from me.

I hope you are similarly empowered and responsible for your own choices. Exploring your feelings with someone else typically requires the other person to be involved. Although a crush is something best experienced alone.

:) The best way I've found to engage someone in a shared emotional experience is to come to terms with my own feelings, talk about them and invite the other person to do the same when they are ready. If you are asking how you can tell this girl how you feel it suggests you already know she might not react favorably. If you are prepared to accept that your feelings might be one sided even after you tell her how you feel, then by all means tell her.

If it is important for you to have your feelings even if they are in direct contrast to hers? Then keep your feelings where they are safe and enjoy them for as long as you can. Reality will catch up eventually, but there's no reason not to enjoy them in the meantime.

Enjoy your choice, whatever you make of it. :).

Feelings of love are always worth sharing. The old model of labeling yourself, or others is falling away, thank goodness. It is not a disorder to be feeling love for someone of the same sex.It is not exceptional, or a special case.

It is simply love, and love is always worth expressing. Take it slow, tell her you really enjoy being with her. Tell her you want to spend more time with her.

She how she reacts, if she has similar feelings you will know. That special moment of shared desire will or will not come to be. If not, then you are friends, if yes, then you may become lovers, you never know til it happens.

Do let anyone force you to label yourself. We are complex being beings, many of us have lovers of both sexes at different times in our lives. Allow yourself to freedom to discover and explore this beautiful part of life.

I wish you the best!

If you have not come to terms with your own sexuality, then you cannot expect things to work with anyone let alone her. If you are sure you are gay... I would start by making sure that she has similar feelings and inclinations. It is always difficult to try to change a friend relationship, and it would be even more difficult if she is adamantly straight, or has strong feelings against same-sex relationships.

If she is not lesbian, then the best thing to do would be to honestly explain how you feel, but be sure to make her comfortable and explain that you understand that she will not be returning your feelings. If she is gay as well, then the same rules apply really. Make her comfortable and honestly explain your feelings and what you expect from her.

That's the best you can do.

The way you tell someone you care is not based on gender. If you're asking how can you tell her without risk of rejection? No different than telling anyone, really.

If you need acceptance and validation for your feelings, looking to someone else is never the answer. Well, never the best answer. Considering the fact that people who are kidnapped can develop feelings for their kidnappers, I'd venture to say that who or what we are attracted to has nothing to do with genetics or science alone.

It's based on personal choice and the situations we put ourselves into (or find ourselves in). I am faced with choices every day. Some I act on, others I don't.

It's up to me either way no matter how strong the feelings are. I enjoy the personal empowerment and no one can take that away from me. I hope you are similarly empowered and responsible for your own choices.

Exploring your feelings with someone else typically requires the other person to be involved. Although a crush is something best experienced alone. :) The best way I've found to engage someone in a shared emotional experience is to come to terms with my own feelings, talk about them and invite the other person to do the same when they are ready.

If you are asking how you can tell this girl how you feel it suggests you already know she might not react favorably. If you are prepared to accept that your feelings might be one sided even after you tell her how you feel, then by all means tell her. If it is important for you to have your feelings even if they are in direct contrast to hers?

Then keep your feelings where they are safe and enjoy them for as long as you can. Reality will catch up eventually, but there's no reason not to enjoy them in the meantime. Enjoy your choice, whatever you make of it.

:).

Feelings of love are always worth sharing. The old model of labeling yourself, or others is falling away, thank goodness. It is not a disorder to be feeling love for someone of the same sex.

It is not exceptional, or a special case. It is simply love, and love is always worth expressing. Take it slow, tell her you really enjoy being with her.

Tell her you want to spend more time with her. She how she reacts, if she has similar feelings you will know. That special moment of shared desire will or will not come to be.

If not, then you are friends, if yes, then you may become lovers, you never know til it happens. Do let anyone force you to label yourself. We are complex being beings, many of us have lovers of both sexes at different times in our lives.

Allow yourself to freedom to discover and explore this beautiful part of life. I wish you the best!

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