If you apply for a marriage license but never married and it never filed is it still on record that you still apply for a license?

My wife porked up quite a bit after getting married and no amount of reasoning would change that . Kindness , tough love ,,,,, all worthless . I resorted to the only thing that works with women ( and children ) ,,,, blatant bribery .

I made her an offer of an annual trip to Hawaii ( or destination of her choice ) if she reached and maintained her target weight . All but one of the years since that deal was struck she has stayed at or below that weight . The 2nd year she decided to test me thinking I'd cave and we'd go anyway .

Nope , I cut up the non-refundable tickets and in the trash they went! See , If you decide to try my suggestion , you have to have the balls to force your hand . " ,,, we're not going!

Chubby and fat are two different things. Her health will be the issue. Bad hips and knee replacements.

Start having an evening walk together. Get rid of all snacks and pop. Replace them with fruits and veg.

You cant make someone go on a diet. But really liked Ryde,on with the incentive to do it. His was big.

Im sure your wife could do it for something?

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.