If you had to choose, would you choose your career over love? Or love over career?

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I'd choose in a heartbeat: Love. Love. Love.Love.

Love is the most important thing in the world, and no career should ever get in the way of that. Some people may scoff at that idea, but to me those same people need to check their life priorities. We only get one go in the wheel of life, so I can't imagine ever putting career above love.It's worth the sun and the moon and the stars.

But damn, if I'm going to compromise my career, it'd better be the real thing.

That all depends on whether or not it is TRUE love, and I mean the sort of love that feels like it opens your eyes in the morning, the kind of love you can't breathe without. Some people confuse love and lust. If you can close your eyes and imagine spending every waking moment with the one you are with, then you are in love.

Giving up a career, can be hard. But it is something that can be replaced or lost, where as TRUE love is hard to find, and once you find it you should NEVER let it go. Myself personally, I would grab the hand of the one I love and walk away from the world if I had to, because even if we are poor and homeless, I know that he will always be by my side.

OF course I would choose love for the only reason why I am working is for my family, well for me my family is my most important treasure and priority above all. And love is the greatest emotion you would ever feel.

I experienced having to choose between career over love and oh boy! It was such a difficult thing for me to decide. It feels like being torn into two pieces.

I just started my career as a Physical Therapist working abroad and my boyfriend was left in my native country. We were very close so the separation was very painful for both of us. I have to from the different culture, workplace, and environment.

But I was lucky because the people welcomed me warmly, I made friends but still there is an emptiness that I felt when I am alone. I tried to divert my attention into visiting different places just to forget my homesickness, I also bought things which I thought would make me happy but still the loneliness kept on nagging me. I learned a very important lesson in my life then, that happiness cannot be bought by money.

The only thing that was holding me back was the convenience I felt. I have my own apartment, a car, and a well-paying job but the problem is I am not happy. So, I decided to quit my job and went back home much to the dismay of my family and friends.

But I am just lucky for they learn to accept my decision and was happy for me. I married my boyfriend and became a full time mom. We have been married for 11 years and was blessed with two doting daughters age 10 and 6.

I remember one time I felt depressed because I was thinking of my colleagues who stayed and worked abroad have their career in full swing and have a higher position, etc. But a call from a good friend of mine made me think differently since then. She and her boyfriend, they are both PTs who stayed there and work are having a difficult marriage. They eventually divorced, she went into a major depression, committed suicide but I'm glad it failed.

I was confused and I was asking her what went wrong? You have a beautiful house, a career, a son, have your own car, so what was missing? And she told me there are many factors.

One is that they were too busy working and they forgot to nurture their relationship. It was too late when one day they realize that they are now strangers. They were too busy with their career that they were not able to bond and spend enough time with each other.

Only then it struck me that the choice I made was the right choice for me. For I am happy with my life now.My daughters have grown up, and I am presently working as a teacher in a local school. The knowledge I learned was not a waste for I was able to share my knowledge and skills to my Caregiving students.

One day we were driving out and I saw this huge billboard, one thing caught my attention. There was a saying that goes: "Success at work cannot compensate for failure at home. " And I thought that sort of a confirmation and I am glad that now I know where my happiness lies.

My family is my never ending source of joy, they are a gift from God.

There's no need for me to think about it: I would choose love. Cemeteries are full of indispensable employees and managers - except their families, who even does care about them? So, I would never lose any of my beloved ones for a job.

Careers come and careers go. A teacher in high school once speculated that we would all have seven careers in the course of our lives. But love, the real thing, is worth hanging on to, worth fighting for, worth changing careers for.It's not that there might only be one person, one opportunity ever in life for love, but when you know, with all your heart and mind, that you have love, the rest - career, location, family - will somehow fall into place.

When it comes to deciding between love and career, we’ll help you understand what really matters to you and how you should deal with it. After all, every relationship is unique and all of us have our own requirements and paths to achieve happiness. If you decide to stick with love and give up on getting a better career prospect, here are a few things you always need to ask yourself.

# Would you ever forgive yourself for letting go of a career opportunity? Most lovers who choose love over career end up remorseful and regret their decision the very next time they have a fight or argument with their lover. # Would you feel bitter?

Bitterness is a slow killer of relationships. If you ever do regret giving up on your career, your bitterness would turn to hatred towards your partner. And over time, you’d end up feeling grumpy or annoyed all the time, especially when you can’t afford what you want to splurge on.

And at times, the bitterness could also take a toll on your happiness and you may end up blaming your lover for your shortcomings. # Can you find a partner as loving as caring? Is your career move a once in a lifetime opportunity?

You may end your relationship and move on, but you have to remember this, finding the love of your life is a miracle that few people ever experience. Have you found the one? Read: Is he the one for you?

And is this promotion or career move a once in a lifetime opportunity? If you’ve decided to focus on your career, then don’t look back and ponder over your lost love. It’s a decision you’ve taken, and you have learn to give up on love and move on.

# Can you move on and forget all about it? Sometimes, you may have second thoughts about moving away from your lover or having to end the relationship even if it’s a perfect one. Can you really put it all behind and avoid regretting it?

There’s really no point in ending a relationship for a career and then spending several months regretting your decision and ruining your career at the same time. You don’t always have to pick one and stick with it when it comes to making a decision between love and career. If both of you do love each other, you can always figure something out that can keep the relationship strong and yet, help both of you progress in your careers.

Perhaps, the only hard part comes in when both of you have recently started dating each other. The relationship would be new and too fragile to face a relationship test. And that’s the only time when you really need to ask yourself if your new love has the potential to blossom into true love.

And on the other hand, you have to make up your mind on how badly you need your promotion or a new job that may require more of your time or you having to move to another state. It isn’t easy to meet the right partner and find your soul mate, so if you genuinely think you’ve met the one who can warm the cockles of your heart for the rest of your life, then decline the career opportunity. But if you’re not very happy in your relationship and think you deserve something better, go full speed ahead and choose your career.

If you’re not happy with your relationship today, what are the odds that you’ll feel better after giving up on your career? And you’d definitely feel worse about giving up on your career on those tough relationship days. Read: Is your partner serious about you?

But whatever you decision may be, stick with it and never look back. Life is a box of mysteries and no matter what you decide to stick with, love or career, coincidences and circumstances have its own way of playing your life out. Weighing the pros and cons could help you decide between love and career, but if they’re both even or if you’re confused, we’d still suggest you stick with love.

It’s a gamble, yes, but one that can have a huge payoff for the rest of your life. True love can give you more happiness than money ever can. And at the end of the day, you want to earn more money to create happy memories and spend more time with the one you love.

But if making money means having to give up on love, what are you fighting for anyways? All of us need someone in our lives to share the happy moments and those sad times when we need a hand and a hug. Love can make your life so much more fulfilling and worthwhile.

Today, you may assume you don’t need anyone to share your life with. You may love yourself too much to care about anyone else. But as the years pass by, you’ll soon see that self-love, career promotions and money will have no value, when you have no one to share it with.

Love completes you when you share it with someone selflessly, and gives more meaning to your life. You can earn all the money in the world, but it’ll never really give you the happiness that a happy smile or a warm hug from your lover can give you. If you have a tough choice to make, always close love when it comes to choosing between love or career.

Better a romantic with lasting memories and happy times than a workaholic with no life and all money. Read: Are women fickle in love? But then again, when you have to make a choice between love and career, are you really happy in love or do you think you deserve better?

That would make all the difference to your answer.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.

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