I am divorced. And actually, I am friends with my ex. It's only because I have known him longer than anyone else (besides family) and we have a son together.
I know alot of couples just walk away, or spend their children's youth at each others throats. We just decided it was more important to do what is right for our son, than to fight for the next 20 years about whose fault everything is. However, without my son...I can't say that we would still be friends.
No, I don't. He was a bad man and it was court ordered that he stay away from myself and our children. My second husband has been more of a father to them than the first was so they haven't missed having a father at all.My daughter on the other hand is very close to her ex.
They are better friends than they were spouses is what she says.
Do not call or text him all the time. This will give him the impression that you're desperate. If you don't contact him, this will let him think that you're moving on and he needs to win you over if he wants you back.
Remember if he wants to talk, he will call you. Learn to be his best friend, remember a relationship means nothing without a solid foundation . Ask him how his friend or brother or pet that he is staying with is doing.
It will make him think you still care for him and his life. When you talk, talk about things he likes. It shows that you're interested in smaller things and he might like that.
Try not to talk about yourself too much either. Try to talk about him. If it has been more than two weeks since you broke up and he steals glances at you, it might mean he still likes you.
If he tells you to leave him alone, leave him alone. Try to make as little contact with him as possible.
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