If you were told that you were not a romantic person by your partner, what would you do?

If my partner will tell me that I am not a romantic person, I would try to evaluate myself if this is indeed true. Sometimes a person can be romantic in his or her own ways which others will not be able to identify with. For example, we normally think a person is romantic if he sends flowers, chocolates, give love notes, invite you over for a dinner with candle light, surprises you on a date and bring you to a place that you wanted so much to go, give you gifts unexpectedly, call you over the phone when you least expect it, rubs your feet if you are tired, and so on and so forth.

Since we as individual have our own ways and perception about being romantic so it would really vary. If I have reflected on this and indeed it is true that I have been neglecting my partner in showing him how I feel, I will do my best to make it up with him. Maybe he is just telling me that he needs more attention that I haven't given because I was busy doing with my work and other things.

But if I think that I have done my part and haven't neglected him and our relationship, I would talk this out with my partner. Maybe he is becoming insensitive to the things that I have done for him which I thought is being romantic. This usually happens if there is too much familiarity between the couple.So, in this case communication is very essential to avoid misunderstanding.

If it's true, I'd agree. Smile. Then push them onto the bed and have my way with them.

If they're MY partner they knew that when they got with me and they chose to be with me in spite of it. Telling me the obvious (if it were true) wouldn't hurt my feelings. My advice on the matter to someone else would be different.

How to be Romantic To be romantic is essential. The real fact is that everyone ,can make an effort to please each other. This is why, I do believe working on this part ,won't make you different but the real one,the best partner.

How to make the change? Thinking,speaking but not getting properly involve in this matter won't get anyone good results but disappointment/frustration. Action, pro-creativity ,originality & practice can get you there.

Ex: you don't know how/what to offer as/ a gift you know nothing about being funny you never show how romantic you are you don't like flowers but she does Nothing is impossible. We must remember as humans we make mistakes . We as humans have the ability to learn all the life We are responsible for the results To really and effectively become romantic ...one should be committed to the relationship .

I would simply try to be romantic and make her happy. Thanks.

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