If your ex asked for distance for emotional independence and asked you not to call how do you get him back when you can't talk to him?

Answer I would not call him at all. He made it clear. He must know how to get a hold of you.

The ball is in his court. I would get out and enjoy myself. See whats out there.

Don't wait around for him to call. You will feel worse and look so desperate if he calls. He knows he can have you anytime.

You are not a challenge. Don't play games but do not be at his disposal. Once he sees you moving on and meeting new people he may come back.

If not, you havent lost anything except gained a new life.

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