Im 19 year old married- and a scrounger lives with me? what shall I do?

Laughing here> Ah yes. The old "But we're separated" line. Works every time and the thing is, once a girl finds out he isn't really separated, he's already f**ked her a few times and is ready to be shed of her anyway.

Wouldn't it be interesting to get his wife's take on this 'separation'? You'd probably find that she was as surprised to learn that they're separated as you were to learn that he's married. You're being used, lamb chop.

UPDATE: Not convinced? Really? Then his wife should have no problem with your sleeping with her husband.

You want to convince ME? Ask her if she minds.

I know you think you are in love with this guy but, I think you're more in love with the idea of being in love! No matter what this guy tells you, have no doubt, he is cheating on his wife and he has no intention of leaving her! Why would he, he's got the wife at home to cook and clean and do his laundry for him AND he's got his bit on the side!

- that's you! Don't be too surprised if a couple of kids come on the scene because, even if they don't exist, they are the ultimate excuse to not leave the wife who still shares the bed with him! I'm sorry if this all sounds rather harsh but, the facts of life are usually just that.

Find yourself a decent lad, who is available and doesn't have so much baggage!

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.