I'm hindu&loving muslim girl.v luved 4yrs.now c is telling I hv 2 convert as muslim.bt I dnt wnt.help me?
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And welcome to Mahalo. That's quite a tough question to ask as a first question! First of all, and don't get me wrong, but if you want to receive serious answers to your question, you might want to try to not use SMS talk language, as it makes your question very difficult to read.
I've read your text three times now, and I'm still not entirely sure what you are asking, and your question deserves better. Secondly, and this is the most important part: Do I understand you correctly that you have tried to commit suicide over this current situation? Please try and understand that NO girl is worth committing suicide for.
Let me repeat that: NO GIRL IS WORTH COMMITTING SUICIDE FOR. You might not agree with that with the situation you are in right now, but just believe me for now. Further, I think you should seek professional help with this situation, as it is obvious this situation is very damaging and troubling to you.
That said, do I understand the situation correctly if I state that you are your GF is Muslim, and she wants you to convert before you can marry? So, you don't want to convert, your family says you don't have to convert, but she still insists. This is a no-win situation, as there is no apparent situation where both of you can be happy.
Either she agrees to marrying you as a or you can convert to be a muslim, or there is going to be no marriage. I cannot tell you how to convince her to accept you as a as apparently she feels very, very strong about her belief, just as you feel very strong about both your love for her, and your religion. This is a tough choice, and a very unfair one.
She basically forces a choice between your love for her, and your most basic belief. I presume you've already told her about the impossible decision that she is putting on your shoulder, and the fact that she still demands that choice should be a warning signal to you. If she truly loves you the way you love her, she wouldn't put you in this impossible situation, with even risks to your health and life.
If she truly loved you, would she demand something that might cost you your life? So even though I am not advising you to forget her, you should really, really have a serious talk with her, explain what she is asking, and what the consequences of her demand are. If she still stands firm in her demand, you should really reconsider whether she actually loves you as much as you love her.
A Lot of Christians who read this might be offended at my own answer, but Christianity is actually pretty strict as far as women are concerned. I agree with Muslims on a few topics; modesty is defiantly one Christians have forgotten. I go to church and see women at my church and young girls in Shorty shorts, and skirts and dresses so short that the dresses won't be on the chair when they sit; It aggravates me.So honestly I am fine with the behavior of Muslim women who cover themselves.
I don't understand why people disrespect another person’s religion. It is not a control thing, but rather a matter of faithfulness to their God that they act in a matter that they believe to be faithful to their God.It irks me greatly as well, how unfaithful Christians can be. Some abuse the right of salvation -- in my opinion when we sin without a care and know it is wrong.
I don't know about you, but I have read verses and done some just some research on the head covering or and honestly I am unclear on it. But I will say that I feel that if one is lead to do something according to their faith, and love for their God, they should do it! These ladies who cover their heads, are doing what they feel lead to do by God, how would you like it if someone knocked your faith on the ground how would you feel?
The fact that they don't care what people think says something to me; and it's that they care more about salvation and living with God in heaven for eternity compared to burning in hell for all eternity.So it's just disrespectful as far as I am concerned to be so rude as to say it is a controlling thing. It’s weak in my opinion to say so. I am not Muslim, nor do I want to be.My argument against Islam is that from what I understand, they do not have the blood of Jesus to wash away their sins, and they are trying to be perfect.
Otherwise I do not know much else. Feel free to inform me otherwise, but I will not argue, I am a good listener and like to learn new things. =D o and open minded!
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.
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