I'm sick and tired of being a good guy?

Here's the problem with a LOT of relationships today---people put WAY too much importance on sex in the first place. Sex should just be an added bonus in being with a significant other; it should not be the focal point! Have sex as the focal point in a relationship is like buying a brand new car.

It's shiny, smells good, runs incredible, there are no flaws in the paint or the interior. It's... perfect! But like any new car that one would purchase, it starts to lose the shine.

If you only purchased the car and love riding around in it only (ie. Sex) , but you aren't willing to maintain it(oil change, tire rotation, etc.) then the car (ie relationship) is not going to last very long. A lot couples just ride around the car and they don't care about maintaining it.

They just enjoy the ride, but are unwilling to keep the ride going. Instead they ride the car until it just doesn't go anymore and then walk away going "why didn't that work out?" ... You see what I mean? Being in a relationship is more than having sex.

After you get out of high school and start dating mature girls, you'll see that sex with someone you care about and whom you connect with on an emotional level is NOT going to dislike you because you don't know what to do (if they had previous experience) ... they aren't going to wish for the past because you're not "good". Someone who cares and respects you isn't going to care about the past. You can always get better at sex.

Maybe at first you won't know exactly what all to do, but you will get better if you and your lady have good communication skills.

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