Is being a mistress, mentally abusing the wife?

When you are a mistress you tend to believe that there is something wrong with the mans wife, which is why he has had an affair. And usually you've not had any contact with her. So he's really the one abusing his wife, not the mistress, she's just going along for the ride.

When you are a mistress you are not mentally abusing the wife; unless you are playing little games like harassing her, that's a different story. If you are seeing him without all the drama then most likely she doesn't know. Or she's doing her own dirt and doesn't have time to pay attention to him doing his.

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