Of course not, Anon! To both questions, btw. I'm not sure whether you're male, female, teenager, or older adult.
Regardless, sex is NOT the most important thing. And, I always placed greater value on friendships - even with my then-future wife, our friendship was cemented before we had sex. (more than 20 years ago) Best of luck, Anon, and continue following the course that you obviously feel is the right one for you!
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.