Is sex the most important thing in a marriage?

To be honest sex is what holds a relationship together, and keeps the love their intimately and solely, if you lose that connection with each other in a relationship/marriage their becomes issues and conflict. I just think its one of those things that a couple need to share and that love should never be lost or abandoned. To be honest the sad truth is men do care about your looks, at the end of the day they have to be attracted to you to want to be with you or you might of just had the opposite problem.

He might not of wanted to have sex with you, if he wasn't obviously attracted to you, and that's my opinion But just tell him and express to him how you might be feeling, tell him your a little tired and drained and just need a veiw days in between to recuperate lol.

As the saying goes, "the less sex you're having, the more important it becomes"...sexual issues have been known to drive couples apart (and somtimes into the arms of another)... Personally, sex is a very important part of a relationship to me, although I understand there will be ups and downs with the frequency, depending on what is going on in our lives...a period of little to no sex is okay, but if it starts to drag on for months, there's a problem that needs to be resolved... You need to consider how long "lately" has been (how long have you been turning down your husband for sex) and if it might not be worth it to muster up enough energy to at least use your hands or mouth to pleasure him in some fashion, rather than continue to reject him (bruise his ego) and risk him making other arrangements to get what he desires...or even if he's not the type to cheat, it could damage the marriage in other ways... When one or both parties are dissatisfied, those feelings tend to start to seep into every other aspect of the relationship and pretty soon everything is a mess and it's all because intimacy disappeared...

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