Its been 8 months. He wants to marry in 2 months, I wanna wait. This is causing a lot of grief. What do I do?

Salam Alaiikum What people do is not what Allah SWT asked of us and his Rasools A.s. To them all one has to remove the human mental aspect of life to find themselves and their limits in balance with Allah SWT first. Follow the ways given 2nd and then themselves as a 3rd The unconditional things after that and then the earth.

Sounds to me like a priority issue. Allah SWT made you, you will return to Allah SWT and you will answer to Allah SWT so Allah SWT is best for you to ask first and formost and Allah SWT says himself he is best for you. This life is but a blink, and then we are gone.

Shall we ignore our own end, when we have a new begining everyday? Shall we take influence from all around us, before we take what easiness Allah SWT has given us in the mercy of Muhammed SAW, his family A.s. And all those who followed him R.a.

And follow him? Peace to the Ummah there is always a better way than the system of man. Edit: To your additional posts.

You are asking people going to humans again, making the same error. Read the book and understand it, English translation of the meaning if need be again. Read the Ryiad Al Salaheen and the Sealed Nectar.

Defense with the sword, not oppression and distruction. Read from the Lord who gave you life.. not from mankind. You just made the same exact mistake again asking us!

To me as a woman.. Islam liberates me from the confines of modern exploitation of woman... I feel so much better being a muslim woman knowing im protected than to be a slave of male society that degrades me by my body, not my mind in western society... I have rights to inheritance, right to own property, right to divorce, right to work, I am not an item to be bought by my husband.. Islam is wonderful to woman.. now a lot of people confuse Islam with culture.. there are backwards communites/cultures here on earth yes that continue to restrain women, but thats not Islam!

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.