Ok me and my boyfriend moved in together and he now wants to wait to have sex tell we get married, in 7 months, help me?

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Seems like you guys should have worked that all out before you moved in together. I personally would never marry someone I haven't lived with and had a full sexual relationship with.

Now I am so confused, I mean I have to live with him now, and now not being able to touch him, I am feeling lost! I know he loves me, I just have never had something like this before! It just seem werid!

Lisadalion 5 days ago .

To be totally honest and sincere, I'd never date a religious zealot.

Oh wow ok thanks for the advice! Lisadalion 5 days ago .

That is a good idea! He may not want you pregnant at the wedding. Birth control can fail.

People used to wait and had no problem. Touching him may make him want sex. He may be too stressed.

He may not want a baby to pay for now too! Take one thing at a time. Wait if you believe in God.

He maybe too embarrassed if you are pregnant at the wedding...wants to do it right. 7 months may go fast. Best wishes.

We both have grown kids and I am fixed, so no kids here,,he just wants to wait tell we get married to haver sex, I am so confused we moved in together and just out of the blues want to do whats right with god and wait tell we get married to have sex.... lisadalion 2 days ago .

Weve been living to together a month now and I am feeling rejected! Lisadalion 5 days ago .

He doesn't even want me to touch him! Lisadalion 5 days ago .

". I could understand moving in together and "saving" intimacy for after the wedding if you were not intimate previously, but certainly if you were intimate prior to moving in together, there shouldn't be any reason to stop now. You are correct that does not make any sense.

But, the only way to find out is to ask and communicate. You can also tell him how horny you are, that you are feeling neglected and closed out of his life and that you don't want to wait until the wedding.As to moving out, that is up to you. I wouldn't use that as a threat or anything like that, though; and you need to realize that if you move out the engagement will probably be off, right?

So, trying to discover what's caused the change in his behaviour - has anything changed in his life, except you moving in?

Oh, great, a born againer. God had nothing to do with the failure of his last marriage. He obvioulsy wasn't worried about it enough before you moved in together to "save money".

You need to decide what you want to do, and if you can live with his silliness long term.

We moved in together, and we were having sex and all of a sudden he wants to wait tell we get married! This is so hard to grasp, I don't know what to do anymore I feel in time I will reseint him, and won't want to marry him...this is crazy! Lisadalion 5 days ago .

Well, once again, my advice is open communication - it will be the only way to get answers.

I believe Elvis Presley moved his girlfriend in his mansion and she remained a vergin several yrs. Later until they married. You've gotta save something to make your wedding day "special"....why not wait?

Lisa....I just read the comments and found where you two had a previous sexual relationship. Maybe he's "cooling-it" because he wants to "save money" before marriage. The problem with his last marriage could have been money problems and he wants to be prepared this time.

Good Luck, dear.....

Perhaps you've encountered a screwball...In fact I'm convinced you have a screwball there...Now that you're living together, it all started to come out....If you think this is strange, what will things be like AFTER you get married...You may have to buck up and run for it...

Don't dismiss him. There may be a perfectly good explanation. Maybe he wants the wedding to be more meaningful.

Maybe he feels guilty for having premarital sex with you and would like to abstain to make up for it. Maybe it was the advice of his priest or a family member. You should talk to him about it (calmly).

If he wants to make that decision, both of you should be involved and you deserve to know what is going on.

We have talked and he doesn't want to make anymore mistakes with his belief and he want me to decide if I can do the same,and wait tell we get married, and now he doesn't care if I move out, but wants to keep moving forward, but now I am not working and have know where to go, lisadalion 2 days ago .

Ok, if he doesn't care if you move out when you have nowhere to go, then he doesn't really love you. From what you have said, he does not care about how you feel ether. Go to a marriage counselor or get a job and get out of there.

I'm seeing red flags, he wants control, total control in the name of his god, RUN for your life! Get away from that nut case and don't look back.

You sound really young. He sounds very confused. A good relationship begins with good and open and full communication.

If you can't tell him what you want, you don't have good communication. Either start working on communication or start working on moving apart.

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