You need to nose out. Your son is an adult. Stop being a control freak or you will drive your son away.
Who he puts his sexual organs in is none of your business dear. The age difference isn't that extreme. EDIT: I think the only reason your upset about this is because your gossipy female friends are making you feel bad.
Stop being such a rude old bat and don't tell everybody your business at the local gossip shop.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.