My 14 year old daughter is involved in inappropriate text with a 14 year old boy. Should we block the boy?

My 14 year old daughter is involved in inappropriate text with a 14 year old boy. Should we block the boy? I had a long talk with her and told her it had to stop.It sounded like she wasn't comfortable with it either.

I thought she would stop and she did for a few days but I read her texts and it is going on again. She has even sent a provocative photo (not naked). I don't know if I should cancel text altogether or just block the boy.

He lives 6 hours away so she doesn't see him in person. Of course she says all her friends are doing this too which I think is so sad and very disturbing! Asked by mom2dna 26 months ago Similar questions: 14 year daughter involved inappropriate text boy block Family > Parenting.

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Consider yourself fortunate IMHO you should consider yourself fortunate that it's just texting. Kids nowdays are growing up quicker than in our generation. Texting if looked at in the right light, might be considered a preferable alternative to their other options.

If you break up the texting, how do you know she won't start doing the other things with more local guys -- flirting, winking, and all that follows? IMHO there's no stopping human sexuality. About all you can do is set good examples and keep the lines of communication open.

Don't be judgemental or the wall will come down and you'll lose all influence over the judgements they make. It's not too soon to stock the top kitchen cabinet with a supply of contraceptives. Better that she start using those than get a case of something..

Do or don't block the "boy" whom she knows, but you should actually be taking the entire communicator away from here since she has used it to defy your direct order. Seriously, compromise on this and she won't do a thing you say for the rest of her teen years..

1 Cancel the text. She'll scream and say she hates you, but she's 14 and she's proven to you that she can't yet be trusted to be a responsible texter. Things can escalate awfully quickly when hormone-filled adolescents are involved.

They're sending provocative photos one day, and they're pregnant the next. If you don't want to be a grandmother a lot earlier than you expected, take away the texting! .

Cancel the text. She'll scream and say she hates you, but she's 14 and she's proven to you that she can't yet be trusted to be a responsible texter. Things can escalate awfully quickly when hormone-filled adolescents are involved.

They're sending provocative photos one day, and they're pregnant the next. If you don't want to be a grandmother a lot earlier than you expected, take away the texting!

2 OK - You are the Mom - likely you are paying the bill and seriously a 14 year old girl doesn't need to be involved in anything more provocative that what she is already exposed to every day. If you spoke to her and told her it had to stop and it continued, why does she still have a phone? It's not easy to raise kids - especially teens - and the conflict is uncomfortable, but it's part of the job and you will not be "ruining her life forever" if you give her some boundaries.

OK - You are the Mom - likely you are paying the bill and seriously a 14 year old girl doesn't need to be involved in anything more provocative that what she is already exposed to every day. If you spoke to her and told her it had to stop and it continued, why does she still have a phone? It's not easy to raise kids - especially teens - and the conflict is uncomfortable, but it's part of the job and you will not be "ruining her life forever" if you give her some boundaries.

NOPE! You are the parent. Cancel her cell phone.

Get her mind on school and off from her phone. She has now proven she is not yet emotionally mature enough to be trusted with this much freedom.

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