There is a difference between love and like. You can love your child but not like their behaviors and choices. Obviously, your child has some major issues with you that are being carried out against you.
Why? You need to get to the bottom of her attitude if you are ever going to heal this breech. It may be she is so poisoned, that you will never heal it.
But I think allowing her to continue this type of behavior is only going to reinforce in her mind that she is right and that you agree you deserve to be treated this way. Try confronting her directly and list the things she has done that have hurt you. Ask her why she thinks this is OK.
Then, based on her answers - either work it out with her or ask her to stop coming over until she can act appropriately and respectfully towards you. If you don't confront this, it will only get worse and worse. There is a curve of compounding consequences.
So it is better to deal with it now and bring it to a head, than let it fester and linger. It will only get worse. Guybee 60 months ago.
There is a difference between love and like. You can love your child but not like their behaviors and choices. Obviously, your child has some major issues with you that are being carried out against you.
Why? You need to get to the bottom of her attitude if you are ever going to heal this breech. It may be she is so poisoned, that you will never heal it.
But I think allowing her to continue this type of behavior is only going to reinforce in her mind that she is right and that you agree you deserve to be treated this way. Try confronting her directly and list the things she has done that have hurt you. Ask her why she thinks this is OK.
Then, based on her answers - either work it out with her or ask her to stop coming over until she can act appropriately and respectfully towards you. If you don't confront this, it will only get worse and worse. There is a curve of compounding consequences.
So it is better to deal with it now and bring it to a head, than let it fester and linger. It will only get worse. Guybee 64 months ago.
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