My boyfriend broke up with me and said he doesn't want a relationship, will he change his mind?

He may, but do you want someone is not 100% into you. Move on with your life. Like MickS said, there are plenty more good catches out there.

He might change his mind if you give him the space to do so, as he has to want it for himself and not feel pressured. Once you've had the opportunity to discuss your feelings with him (which you may have done already) don't contact him for a few weeks (at least) and give him time to rethink his decision. That's your best bet.

Don't waste your time on him, just get out and enjoy yourself and find someone else when you're ready, plenty more fish in the sea.

That's a maybe :)) don't you regret letting go of things that can be replaced, if he comes back to you then good if not move on.. That's among life's proven formula to continue living with a lot of hope for tomorrow.

Maria the thing is, as others have said above, he might have feelings for you but he can't have it both ways. Crying is often a way of persuading you that he is ok really even if he isn't. But will he go out and do it again once he has your trust back?

When he next starts sobbing (maybe in regret) don't be ruled by that behaviour. We can all do that. If he is sincere, he will also listen to your ideas.

I know it sounds a cliche but talking is a good strategy and take things in stages. But no the Big Cry stuff is not an indication of his commitment to you. Period.

This is a hard question to answer, I can not say yes because you might get your hopes up and get them knocked back down, if he broke up with you and said he doesn't want a relationship then don't call him or text him or beg and plead to get back together with him, that will scare him off, I would suggest that you accept what he's said and if he really wants you, he'll come back. If not, then i'm affraid you'll just have to let him go, on the positive note of that if your strong enough you could always suggest to him you stay friends after all, it's better getting a long with him rather than staying mad at him for the rest of your life.

The thing is he says he still has feelings for me, he even cried..which confused me more, he sas he doesn't want a relationship because it's stressful and he doesn't want to think about hurting someone else. Writing this out really shows me how pathetic it actually is that I want to get back with him. I'll try not talking to him and see if it changes at all, and I agree there is plenty more fish in the sea, but it's just so hard to get over him.

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