My daughter in law is manipulating between my husband and myself How should I address this with her?

Talk to your son, and see what he think are the issues. ElBanditoRoso 51 months ago.

Without knowing specifics, if both you and your husband know that she is manipulative, then communicate often so you stay on the same page. Then take what she says/does with a grain of salt and give her the benefit of the doubt. Could be that she is just nervous and hasn't learned how to deal with in-laws.

Our DIL did the most disgusting things when we were around; it was almost like she was saying, "I can't believe that you really love me. If I do this, I bet you won't even like me." We just ignored what she did and continued to love her.

It took a while but she finally got the message that yes, we really did love her and accept her for who she is. GGertie 55 months ago.

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