My daughter in law will not speak to me she is almost 30 and has taught this rude behaviour to my grandson he is 5. Myt?

My daughter in law will not speak to me she is almost 30 and has taught this rude behaviour to my grandson he is 5. Myt My son is constantly asking me for money or things that cost money from my house and yet he endorses this behavior from his wife and child. I have a new granddaughter that I am not getting to see and I feel like I am being used in order to have a relationship with my grandchildren.

I have been spending around 300 to 600 per month on these people and am getting ready to retire and really do not want to do this anymore at all. Asked by mam7290 3 months ago Similar questions: daughter law speak 30 taught rude behaviour grandson Myt Society > Religion & Spirituality.

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Don't do it. They're using emotional blackmail on you, and you're not getting anything for it. You're only perpetuating their rotten behavior.Be tough enough to realize that this may mean you won't have a relationship with your son and his family.

They're parasites, you don't need them.

Thank you for the advise you are reinforcing what I know is the right thing to do. Mam7290 3 months ago .

Say no. That's all. No is a complete sentence.

If you say no, and try to explain that you cannot afford it, or whatever, you give them a change to argue and talk and try to convince you to give in.

Thank you for your advice! Mam7290 3 months ago .

It is so sad that some people have no heart and choose to treat a Grandmother like this. Do not give them another penny, they deserve nothing. If they try to hold your Grandchildren from you then take them to court, Grandparents have rights.

You are correct I keep hoping that they will grow up and act like caring people but so far it hasn't happened. Mam7290 3 months ago .

Like the others said, you need to stop giving them money. They are scamming you and they need to grow up. They are spending their money on them themselves and not paying their bills.

You need to distance yourself from them and not put up with that kind of treatment. Eventually they might come around.

You are right and the worst of it is that my DIL doesn't work and hasn't worked other than six months of her life. She is a very spoiled princess. Mam7290 3 months ago .

Don't give any more money...just say you are out of money. They may forget and come to visit only.

Thanks for the advice. The bottom line is that if they want these thing bad enough she can go to work. Mam7290 3 months ago .

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