When you hold your dog, now you have the new dog in the house, this particular dog may well feel 'vulnerable', so for now, don't. I seriously doubt your original dog 'hates'...... this isn't a dog emotion. Dogs will put up to a ton of abuse and still luv their owners!
Yeah for the Whippet, but clearly she's not the object of the new puppy's attention! You have to make a safe place for your existing dogs, both of them, so they can get away from the puppy - and a crate for your puppy when you can't supervise what's going on. And why do you have a puppy of only 6 weeks in any case?
This vulnerable puppy should be back with whoever bred the puppy for AT LEAST a further 2 weeks and better yet, not come out into the world until it's 10 weeks. Fact is bringing a third dog into the house may be one too many and would be likely to alter the status quo. Not all dogs get along together in any case.
For now, you have to let them together to try to get them to bond but ONLY when you are there to control the situation. Feed the puppy separated (crate?) and be careful re toys - anything that might trigger a fight much as adults usually know not to attack puppies. And for now, don't 'kiss' or pick up the one who is upset about all this!
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