My EX girl friend will marry soon with another guy, but she still says that love me, and I luv her too, what can I do?

Well, you can still love someone and marry someone else. I certainly love my first real girlfriend, but she's married with a family. There's nothing I can do.Do you think she told you this in the hopes that you would offer to marry her?

I had a friend who that happened to. He turned her down. But I would say those are your only options.

Either pop the question to her or just accept the fact that she still thinks fondly of you.

Love can be a brotherly love also...we are to love all people. Maybe she will get divorced if she is not ready.

It would be up to her, you will never know unless you tell her.

You can begin disbelieving everything she says. "I love you. ""I'm marrying him."

She is either saying one to control you and keep you around for her own purposes, or she is saying the other to control your emotions and so get some sense of power in her pathetic little life. The only intelligent thing to do with a pair of contradictions such as these is to ignore her completely.

I'd like not to be his fiancé then. She's in lie with herself first, and should establish for once if yes or no she wants to get engaged with the other one.

Only you know the answer to that. Sit her down and talk to her before the marriage and try to get her to change her mind. If she still goes through with it, back off.

She's getting cold feet, and being a bit of a "control freak", she wants it all..She's also perhaps a bit of a screwball.. Be thankfull, you're not stuck with her..Her husband will have his hands full with that one..In case you're wondering HOW I know this, as a young man I worked in the wedding business (NYC)..You'd be surprised how many brides I slept with 2 weeks before their wedding..Remember,,,, to some women LOVE is merely another 4 letter word..

Love can be a brotherly love also...we are to love all people. Maybe she will get divorced if she is not ready. Shasha 57 months ago.

Love can be a brotherly love also...we are to love all people. Maybe she will get divorced if she is not ready. Shasha 62 months ago.

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