I have found that relationships start better and last longer when you take time to get to know the person first, before becoming romantically involved. Try and find a way to hang out with a group of friends, get to know her likes, her favorite music, her views on politics, her ambitions, her expectations in a relationship. I have seen so many people jump into a relationship because of "love at first sight" or physical attraction."The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak.
" And once they get to know the person, their personality and their character, they have nothing in common and sometimes have outright conflict. There is a good polemic for this in E.A.Poe's "The Spectacles." I recommend reading it.
Perhaps you could read it with your friend or in a group! So my advice is get to know the person. Who knows, just because she is pretty, sweet, has beautiful hair and a nicely shaped body, doesn't mean she has anything upstairs.
In having this type of honest approach to other human beings, you will learn things about yourself and the way you think, making yourself more approachable and desireable.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.