My ex....Please answer, I need help! Easy points! Needed many answers, please help me! good advice!?

LOL here's what happened to a friend of mine (true story) we're 24 year old women but it could apply to you I guess her bf of 2 years broke up with her...his good friend asked her out and she agreed... of course her ex hearing of it was upset and apparently told her now bf that he could get her back if he really wanted. Her boyfriend and ex stopped being friends over this and her ex started callign her asking her how she's doing and such.is soon she dumps her bf and gets back with her ex... of course all he wanted to do was prove a point to his good friend so they date for 2 months and he dumps her again. She goes back to the good friends who no longer wanted her but he dated and did stuff with her and of course left her for someone else.

These things happen with guys all the time, they make bets and such. U were wrong to date your ex best friend and IF...I REPEAT if you and the ex you love ever get back together, HE WILL NEVER SEE U THE SAME...he wasn't lying when he said he wasn't losing anything he wanted because he probably does not want you emotionally anymore... physically yes since he wanted to be friends with benefits but you and him as of now...are over in the emotional level...playing hard to get won't do anything...u've dug your grave... sorry to be harsh but you want true answers right?

Girlie..just move on. Your only 14 and your not at the point you need to be stucked with one "boy" yet. It is perhaps the fact he ws "popular" and girls are all over him that made you want him more rather than you yourself really want and feel good when your with him.

It is the trophy syndrome where you feel good that you "owned" someone so popular. In reality, love is not about getting "the hottest"guy or girl . Your in a passing phase so just enjoy the phase while it lasts.

However never think so hard about whether this prick will call you back or not coz the more you think about it the worse it gets on your self-esteem. Don't ever give someone else thae power to make you feel any lesser about yourself.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.