My friend has self esteem issues ::please read::?

From the above description, she seems like a lovely girl. She's in a self-sabotage state ( read about it ). I think she's an outgoing person, creative and super cool.

All she needs to do is to stop this self- loathing. I'd want to be her, I graduated from high school still can't drive a truck, nor can I ride a horse. She has a lot going for herself.

I know the family issue is draining and has a big role to do with what she's been feeling. 'Mary' my parents divorced when I was young, it was a very hard time for me, I went through the same self loathing process you are going through. It all became too much because I started pushing people away, all the time I though my parents divorced because of me, but after talking to both of them, they let me know that it had nothing to do with me.

Infact they love each other still do, but they just can't be together, because their relationship had changed and it was time to move on. They are the best of friend now and still get on. I'm the centre of their world.

I'm pretty sure you are the best thing that has happened to your parents, plus you have a friend who cares about you so much that she has gone to the extent of trying to make you see what great things you have going on for you. Be happy, start going to socials with your friends and my advice to you is find time to love you and let people in. Take care and stay blessed.

She seems very pretty. You should have a sleepover with her and you and some other friends and you can do makeovers and stuff that MAKE her feel pretty. And give her compliments but not too many cuz then it'll seem that your trying too hard.

Tell her that if she wants to raise her GPa that she should work harder and you can even help her with her work. Telll her that everything between her parents is going to be okay and not to worry about it. Maybe she just needs someone to talk to hope that helps :).

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.