My husband and I are going through a rough patch, he is 42 I an 31. We haven't had sex in a month what should I do?

If you have similar things in common that you like to do then yes. Or you go off and do your own sport if you really want to. You still need to keep your individuality too - marriage doesn't take that away.....and if it does then it isn't a great marriage.

It does get harder if you have little children....as it is much harder to find the time and babysitters to be able to do all the things you used to do, but as the kids get older you can start to get some of that back.

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