My husband and I have been married for 4 months. He still has not introduced me to his children. What do I do?

My husband and I have been married for 4 months. He still has not introduced me to his children. What do I do?

Asked by ggmellymel 49 months ago Similar questions: husband married months introduced children Lifestyle > Relationships.

Similar questions: husband married months introduced children.

Do a Dinner... Invite them Assuming they know you two are married he is probably just worried about a bad reaction from them. He probably thinks that they feel some loyalalty to the mother (his ex) and that they may feel compelled to disapprove and express that. He has to get past it... he has to tell them how happy he is now and that he loves you and wants to share his life with them completely.

If they are local then invite them over for a dinner or something and make the introduction then. Make it a happy thing. I am sure they are wondering why they haven't been introduced and it is like isolating them from that side of the family when they should really be included.

If, for some reason, they don't want to be included then they won't accept the invite and you will know... if they come knowing that they are to be introduced to the dad's wife then they likely have already accepted this and it will be cool. Sources: IMHO .

Do nothing. Do nothing. Children are really important and you don't want to rush anything.

You don't know the situation between he and his ex. Just wait and when you get tired of waiting talk to him about it.

Ok that is a useless question at this point. The deed is done. Now tell him he needs to make the introductions.

Either you are a permanent part of his life and therefore their lives or not. You are their step mother.Do they know you exist? Does the mother have objections to you meeting them?

Truthfully he should handle this but it is wrong for the woman he loves enough to marry to be kept away from his children. I would be adamant about this. Even if they never see you again, they need to know you exist and are a real part of their father's life.

Depending on their ages and the custody agreement you may not get to do more than meet them once. This is not a good start to a marraige. Get it straightened out before it becomes a huge issue.

Time to put your foot down and set a date Don't allow your hubby to put it off any longer. The upcoming holidays are a perfect excuse. Offer to host a get-together (even if it means a Christmas gathering on Dec.28 or 19).

And if that's too much trouble for his kids, offer to go to them and fly/drive to wherever they're at. I'd be insistent that the holidays is the time for families, and it's time to meet your new family already. Don't take no for an answer, but be as flexible about the arrangements as possible.

Bend over backwards to accomodate him and the kids - this way he won't have any real excuse to keep all of you apart. Accept no excuses any longer. If he refuses, you might want to see a marriage counselor, since this is a very big marital issue..

I would pray about it. It isn't fair to you or to his children, but to force him to introduce you make make things worse. I am suggesting that you pray because that's what I would do, but somehow you need to get some peace about the situation.

The situation is what it is, and he must have feelings and reasons for not allowing you to be close to his kids. If he doesn't introduce you to them soon you may need to find a support group or someone to talk to about the issues. Just try to stay peaceful and work through issues that he does want to work on..

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