It has been 11 months and still not divorced and I am his supposed fiance?

That seems reasonable Also maybe you only have sex once a week because you live in two different states. Another thing, it is hard to be their physically and emotionally when you live in 2 different states. Does throwing away a 4 year relationship seem like a good idea when main problem seems to be that you are having to do in long distance?

You said you both love each other, then just work out this 2 state thing and live together and a lot of the problem will iron themselves out.

You have way more issues than can be discussed here in a short answer. Where to begin? Sit down with him and have a serious discussion of where you two are now in your marriage.

Sex and kids are a big issue, no doubt. But it makes no sense for you to be pregnant in Texas and him be in Ohio. That should be a time of joy for the two of you to share, not not a weekend add on.

Find out if he is really committed to moving to Texas to be with you. His not having sex with you could be a sign of his being hesitant to make that move. Since it looks like you are the one who can find employment easier, you may need to compromise and go back to Ohio if you truly love him and want to be with him.

I have always been taught ....and believe, that if you truly love someone, sacrificing for them is not a sacrifice. If he is unwilling to give you what you need, and I am not talking about the baby here, but the emotional support you say you need, it could be a sign of bad times to come down the road. You give several red flags here.....no ambition, seemingly indifference to your needs.

If these are really there and are not just inflated feelings on your part due to the separation, you have legitimate cause for concern. On the other hand, if you guys were together all those years and things went well, there is a good chance that if you could both find a way to actually live in the same state together, you would be ok. Good luck to you two.

I personally think you CAN work this out.

The moment you realized he was married, you should have left. He's a scumbag, period! The past 11 months have been a waste.

Seems like he isnt gonna file the divorce at all and if he ever does he might do the same thing to you. Its gonna hurt a lot but you need to leave him and move on. Its sad that some guys are like that..

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.