My husband has a friend that he met online and they talk sexually. she sent naked pics and had phone sex should this end?

You sound very tortured over this. Truly. The whole event is based around events that the everyday person would never face.

Sounds like you both are in need of the therapy, but I think it's good he's not going with you. I think you need to "get your head straight" and then seek some semblance of normality. A break from this relationship seems to me as though it's not a bad thing.

I am not being judgmental, but this whole story is pretty aberrant. I am not suggesting that you follow one path or the other, but staying on this current one seems as though it's pretty doomed. Hope things get better!

The answer is in the details of your question: "he has gone as far as telling me that if I cannot get over it I can leave. " Ask yourself if you can or want to get over it. If the answer is no, leaving is the right thing to do.

You may stress over leaving, just as you're stressing over staying now. But in the end you will be without stress and find someone you desire to be faithful and loving to that also desires to be with you the same way. Life is too short to stay in an unhappy relationship.

Please move on sooner than later. You'll be much happier for it. Believe me.

You're not being unreasonable at all. Tell him that he's broken the rules of your "game" and its gone too far. If he refuses to do so, then who is he in a relationship with?

I mean, he's not even attempting to be discrete. Honestly, it sounds like you are not entirely without blame but that doesn't mean you're required to stay between the rock and the hard place.

I think, it is a real warning sign. I think, your relationship is in real trouble. It is just a matter of time for him to meet this woman in real.

You have enough reasons to worry about this. He must end it if he values the marriage. It is like getting addicted to video games.

He must seek therapy. If he is refusing it, I don't think there is much you can do to save this relationship. Good luck.

Well, this seems like a common issue now days, I would not leave because you both are married which is very serious, but for him to say no to dropping an online friendship tells you something, they must be more than friends or he would be fine with just saying to her hey look im married and your hurting my marriage so this is goodbye and block them. It seems as if your husband is cheating on you once again, to tell woman online that you two are seperated is stepping way out of line. I would get counsiling, and I would tell him that if he wants this marriage to last that he would to to counsiling as well, if he still refuses then you should try to talk to the girl about it, she might understand more than he will more than likely, im very sorry to hear this and goodluck hope I helped =.

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