I did this once, but the boy was 19 so feel better about that. - My parents took everything from me my phone, my internet privileges, TOLD the boy that if he was caught talking to me again my dad would call the cops because he was over-aged, they were going to home school me but they couldn't do it. I was going into the 10th grade and was a basketball cheerleader.
This killed me, so maybe you should do the same. - I proved to my parents that I was responsible to have all this stuff back. It took almost 7 months to get it all back, The trust was most definitely the hardest.
But, if this boy means this much to her - after she earns your trust again - maybe you should try to get to know him. My parents did for me, and now we've happily been together for 2 years without doing ANYTHING! I really hope this helps honey.
This is what I would do. If you have told her in the past not to talk to this guy then I think time away from the internet for a couple weeks is a fair punishment along with deletion of the second account. If she wasn't asked to avoid him then just a simple warning and deletion of facebook account would be enough.
And warn her if she continues to sneak around then facebook will no longer be allowed then follow through by installing a parent control program on the internet.
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